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Offline golu80

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i need ur guidance sai baba to decide on what to do ?
« on: December 20, 2009, 09:15:38 AM »
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  • Hi All,

    Jai SAI RAM. I am in a fix since 4 yrs of my life. I have someone in my life who loves me a lot and from day one he has been very committed and loyal and wants to marry me. but my parents dnt wnt me to marry himas they feel he is not good looking and also he is from a different community. Also his parents dont have the status that my parents have. My dad says that what will i tell my relatives , i will be insulted if u get married to his family. I have beenpraying n running here n there to so many astrologers for a solution but to no avail. I dnt knw shud i leave him or shud i marry him. I have not been able to convince my parents. Yesterday my parents took me to a shah ji in gurudwara and he said that i willnot be able to adjust in his family due to the  status and community difference and he will not be able to leave his family and there will be fights. what do i do. ? i pray to sai baba to come in my dreams and guide me. pls help me to get out of this n take the next step. i jst want my parents blessings. iam sorry if this message has been tooo long..




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    Re: i need ur guidance sai baba to decide on what to do ?
    « Reply #1 on: December 21, 2009, 02:40:24 AM »
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  • Dear Sis,

    What I can understand from your post, You belong to such family where relatives are always ready to find (Moreover create) an issue for Gossips and tamasha. I can understand problem of your father, especially If you have any younger sister (or Including close cousin), Your Inter caste/community marriage will  definitely create hurdles in her relations. In your community marriage within caste/community, It is not guaranteed will always be success. But, rate of failure is very low, due to involvement and influence of old family members in family affairs.

    One reason your family against this relation might be due to sense of insecurity for you. You are carrying this relation for last four years. Have you earned any additional qualification, So that you can face and convince your family strongly. How good your friend is qualified, How he is earning? Remember success of Inter caste marriage increase if both the partners are at par. Just think with calm mind. Marriage is not a relation between two individuals but also between two families. Even if you manage to marry him anyway, after some years your parents forgive you and adopt, But, in case his family does not treat you fairly, what you will do? What life will be? 

    I am not trying to confuse you, but to bringing close to truth, as in such condition it becomes very difficult for mind to understand and accept the facts. Be strong, Develop confidence in you. Try to convince first yourself, then to your family. If can’t, Then accept and respect your destiny. Whatsoever will happen in your life, will happen for Good!

    May Sai Bless You!

    om sri sai ram!
    om sai ram!
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