OM SAI RAM
Dear Saitulasi,
Glad to know of these developments. I can understand your pain, cause my cousin has done the same thing to her parents. And she is an only child.
I dont know how old is your daughter. But if she beyond 25, I think you have to slowly and gradually let her fly with her own wings.
yes she may not take the right way and falter, but if you let her know that you are always there, her confidence will increase and keep guiding her to the right path. After certain age, parents should have confidence that the Values and Sansakras that they have instilled in their children, will always keep them away from harm and evil. Your baby doll is no more that. You need to start looking at and talking to her from a different angle than a mother. Maybe, listening to what she has to say and share a bit from your side, so that she knows that she can be comfortable with you as her friend. Maybe, now that she has grown up, she wants a loving friend, rather than a loving mom. Try that.
May Baba guide your daughter to the right path. And Baba give you strength to face this period.
Till then...Keep Praying!!!