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Title: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: saicharandhool on July 07, 2009, 11:14:33 PM
Om sai ram..I was very depressed after I came back from shirdi and all my options of communication to my love was ceased and I told to sai while leaving from shirdi on 5th July that I will never come back again and after remaining tensed for next 2 days on monday morning I started to feel that Sai is calling me to shirdi and people said that you had been there 2 days back but I was strongly feeling he is calling me and that night co-incidentally few of my friends decided to go to shirdi on guru-purnima morning and I was just surprised by the way things were happening..although next day morning the plan was cancelled and I did not go to office but I got a feeling to go to my love's place also after suggestion from my brother that you have prayed and now just time to put your efforts and see if prayers work..I went there thinking about baba and was expecting the worst but as soon as I reached there I was surprised to see her back from goa and her father made me eat lunch...I spoke to her..She said she loves me a lot but doesnt want to change her decision as we have fought a lot in last 1 year and she likes to be alone..she is again not keeping well and will have blood test done today...I said sorry for my rude behaviour and tried to make her understand but she said no one can take my place but still she would like to be alone as she is not in a physical condition to put in any efforts..She has promised to call me and meet me...I dont know what baba is trying to do..he has fulfilled my wish of making me meet her but still he has not blessed me with whole hearted love...But this is not less than miracle that for last 2 months I was struggling to talk to her and after my visit to shirdi and putting little efforts i was able to reach to her and speak to her for couple of hours..whatever happens in future is upto sai and his blessings...I wish all my prayers for needy ones are also answered which I did in shirdi...GOD BLESS ALLL...THIS FORUM HAS GIVEN ME LOT OF LOVE,SUPPORT, FEW SAID WORDS WHICH WERE TOUGH AND HARSH BUT INTENTION BEHIND THOSE WORDS WAS GOOD...PLS PRAY FOR ME AND HER AND OUR FAMILY...JAI SAINATH.
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: saisan on July 07, 2009, 11:29:44 PM
om sai ram charanji,
Its not kind of miracle its 100% miracle, congrats and i know this incidence is a savour when u were suffering so much,its really good sign that she loves you and believe me this is the only thing true love sai will bless you for sure,as she is not in good health ..she may just want to have relaxed life....let her take time be alone and just tell her that "you will wait for her and u will be there for her when ever u wanted"..that's it and just keep praying intensily .all things will fall at place and you will be blessed and may baba call you both shirdi next time..

see baba has answerred you ...and u were saying "baba aap ke sath nahin" now just think positively and have complete faith on baba .he will bless you soon.i will pray for you.

i am also facing the same problem....after reading your post it gave me litte releif
om sai ram ...
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: saicharandhool on July 07, 2009, 11:38:14 PM
Saisanji..Thankyou for your kind words..i had completely surrendered to baba..I always believed in him but that feeling in shirdi was strange but yes I understand I need to give her time..Baba ne usse mila diya aur uska yeh kehna bhi kaafi tha that she loves me and I told her that its just a phase where you feel its better you live alone but I will wait for you as I have accepted you as my life partner in front of baba. I have and will definately pray for all others who are in problem..I hope baba will resolve your problems and unki nazar-e-karam hogi..Main sirf itna kehna chahta hoon sabko apne experiences se jo mujhe meri maa ne bhi sikhaya hai..Your prayers should be strong and your efforts should be stronger...I dont know whether she will realize the need to be with me but just to see her,talk to her was so heartening..I pray that she gets well soon and baba helps all his children..OM SAI RAM...God bless u.
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: gunj on July 08, 2009, 02:02:46 AM
om sai ram manishji

bahot khusi hui mujhe dil se ki aapko usne milne ka mauka mila,apka post padhke mere ankho mein ansu agaye ki baba kaise chamtkar karte hai,jahan apki puri umeedein khatam hochuki thi wahi kal jo hua woh ek miracle hi hai,sai ne apki sunli kyuki apke lia sab ne dil se dua ki baba se,ab jab unse baat hui hai apki apka dil ka bhoj halak toh hua hoga samajh sakti hu wo ladki ne apko abhi mana kia hai par wo aapse milegi ye wada kia hai ,aab apko dikhana hoga ki aap unke lia badal chuke ho,apne ego,chod dia hai gussa bhi khatam ho chuka hai,ab bus pray karti hu ki wo ladki aapko mil jaye apka changes rang laaye,unhe apko yakin dilana hoga unki jyadad se jyada care kariye,beemar hai wo kya hua hai unko.

om sai ram
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: saicharandhool on July 08, 2009, 02:11:57 AM
Gunj..Om sai ram..Sabse pehle main aapko yeh sunana chahta tha..You along with few others have really prayed and supported me a lot during last week or so..I was about to give up but then I surrendered to baba and did not stop putting efforts..She might be having jaundice..She is alone and kind of forcing this decision on herself but somewhere I know she is not happy but she is scared phirse woh jhagde na ho..jaise aap sab ki duaien mere kaam aayi hai vishwas hai mera meri duaien bhi aapke liyen rang layengi aur baba ki karam se sab khushi payenge..Man karta hai ki ek get togehter rakhe jahan sab mil sake..Once again you have been a true friend and wellwisher..thankyou so much and god bless you dear!!!!!!! I m really proud to have a friend like you...aage baba jaane ki woh kya decision leti hai bas yeh samaj aa jaye ki main uska khayal rakhna chahta hoon aur problems har rishtey mein hote hai par unki wajah se rishtey strong hone chahiye na ki tutune..
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: gunj on July 08, 2009, 02:20:16 AM
om sai ram manishji

apne sahi kaha problemse rishte majbut hote hai kamjor nahi,kyuki kuch din ki duriyo se humein pata chal jata hai ki samane wala insaan humein kitna important rakhta hai.bahot khusi ho rahi hai,hum jarur ek baar get together rakhege jab sabina apko puri tarah s maaf kardengi aur aap dono fir se ek hojaoge,we r from mumbai we can toh hum get together karge ,meri bhi problem solve hojaye fir we will arrange it.aap sabina ko bharosa dilayie ki aab jagade nahi hoge bus pyaar hoga,and pls unka dyan rakhe its rainy season and jaundice is a deadly disease,meri maasi ko bhi hua hai she is in bangalore and serious hai,pray fo all baba pls cure all ur children from such pains

om sai ram
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: saisan on July 08, 2009, 02:24:52 AM
om sai ram charanji
yes baba ka thanks jo aap ki icha pur ki and after u have been to shirdi things falled at place.
aisa hi hota hai jab baba ke hath me apna problem dethe ..vo bahut achi se solve karthe hai. he answere you because u were not feeling his presence ..he made u feel by answereing your prayers.don't worry dheere dheere sab thik kar denge baba.....
don't worry about her she will be fine and baba will take care of her.....ask her to take udi ..we all will pray for her good health om sai ram - baba be with her cure her completely and uinite them ....true love will never fails

i have done my efforts and also im praying very strongly and intenslity phir bhi baba nahin sunthe ....tho abhi mangna hi chod diya baba se ....
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: saicharandhool on July 08, 2009, 02:54:30 AM
Gunj...haan I am sure aapki problem resolve ho jayegi jaldi..meri sachi dua khaali nahi jayegi..We will definately plan something..Bas woh theek ho aur khush rahe chahe mere saath naa rahe..kal use dekhkar..ek rose dekar..apne dil ki baat kehkar main shaant ho gaya..aage bhi sab baba hi tay karenge meri koi hasti nahi..
Saisanji...prayers na chode..mangnaa na chode..umeed pe duniyaa kayam hai aur aapke saath meri, ham sab ki duaien hai..thanks for praying for us..I hope this time true love doesnt fail..I will take her to sai-baba temple if she meets me on saturday...Aap bhi vishwas rakhe..are u from mumbai?
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: saisan on July 08, 2009, 03:00:34 AM
om sai ram
ya hope so baba will bless me soon .........i will keep praying....sometimes i don't ask anything sometimes i ask
good that u heard good news in guru purnima day .very auspicious day
i am not from mumbai .im from b'lore
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: gunj on July 08, 2009, 03:01:41 AM
om sai ram manishj

dua bade chamatkar kar deti hai,unke lia dua karti hu wo thik hojaye ,aur kyu aisa sochte hai aap wo apse pyaar karti hai toh apke bina toh wo bhi adhuri hai,wo jarur apk saath rahegi,ek baat bolu,agar sab thik hojaye na toh pls shaadi karlena jaldi se,aur humein jarur bhulana
TCS mein agar job nikale toh pls let me know.
I worked as an jr accountant from april 2008 and rite nw working as a office asst
have cmpleted my bcom in 2008 april
first class in 10th,12th,and ty
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: saicharandhool on July 08, 2009, 03:09:26 AM
Gunji..my id is m.bajaj@tcs.com..we can talk sometime..Mera bina adhuri hogi yeh usse mehsoos hona chahiye is waqt woh keh rahi hai tu kisi aur se shaadi kar le...pata nahi..woh kehti she loves me most and nobody can take my place but still she doesnt want to be with me and I dont want to force her but the thing is I realize she is not looking at future..kal usse meri zaroorat zaroor hogi aur tab agar main na raha to bahut pachtaiygi..kaise usse akela chod doon.
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: gunj on July 08, 2009, 03:25:59 AM
om sai ram manishji

aapko samajhana hoga baba ne apko raha dikha di hai ab is baar apko sare steps lene hoge aage jane k lia agar is baar ye chance aapne chpda dia toh shayad fir aisa na ho,unhe apko samajhana hoga ki unke bina aap adhure hai,apki kife adhuri hai unki jagah apki life mein koi nahi le sakta wo sirf unki hai,apko jyada affection dikhao unko yakeen dilao its ur turn now u have to take steps .i m nt tell to force her but unhe samjhane ki koshihs kare ki agar aapk saath nahi hai wo toh aap bhi khush nahi ho aise.aapko apne upa vishwas rakhna hoga ki aap unhe mana lege ,ek chte se bache kaise zidh lagake baith the hai waise hi sabina ji ne ki hai ki wo pak bina ji nahi sakti par apke pass ane se dar rahi hai islia mana kar rahi hai,apko bhi unhe ek bache ki tarah pyar dulaar se manana hoga,ladkiyo ka dil bada najuk hota hai wo jaldi se apko maaf kar dengi aur apke saath ajayegi

bharosa rakhe aas banaye rakhe .
om sia ram
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: saicharandhool on July 08, 2009, 03:28:43 AM
OM sai Ram..gunj..Main apni puri koshish karoonga..aap apni duaien saath rakhiye..aage allah maalik
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: saicharandhool on July 08, 2009, 03:43:47 AM
She had promised to call me today but ab tak to call nahi aaya...pata nahi if she will call me..when I was behaving with her the way I used to she was saying dont behave like this..she was controlling herself not to confess her love...she also promised to meet me on saturday..sabse zyada chinta hai uski blood report ki.
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: gunj on July 08, 2009, 03:49:39 AM
om sai ram

Aap wait kijiye,shayad unko time lag raha ho doctor k pass,agar call nahi karti hai toh aaap karna shaam ko unhe call kal aap gaye the toh apne koi number nahi lia unhe contact karne k lia,and uske father ne kaise behave kia apke saath ap unke papa se bhi apni galti ki maafi mange,aur unse unke rishte ki baat karne ki koshish kare,pata kare kya hai unke papa ki dil mein apk lia.

om sai ram
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: saisan on July 08, 2009, 03:53:46 AM
om sai ram charanji
jaundice will be 2 types yellow and white ..white detect nahin hota blood report me
you can take her to some ayurvedic doc .... baba will guide you
don't worry she will call you ........... let her call you when ever she is free to talk to u
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: saicharandhool on July 08, 2009, 04:01:33 AM
om SAi Ram..Mujhe usne kaha ki usse naya number lena hai..she said she will call from daddy's cell..Uske daddy ke saath mera koi problem nahi tha..He made me sit and zadbardasti khaana khilaya..uske ghar se main nikal gaya jab usne kaha ki main kisi aur se shaadi kar loon par phir woh apne daddy ke saath bahar station ki tarah jaa rahi to main phir uske peeche gaya ek rose diya phir uske daddy,main aur woh hotel mein baithe thodi der..uske baad main aur woh station pe khade khade baat karte rahe ek ghante tak...ab pata nahi un baaton ka uspar kuch asar hua ya nahi..maine usse bataya main ab kya sochta hoon..par mere paas koi # nahi usse call karne ke liye
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: saisan on July 08, 2009, 04:10:54 AM
don't worry saicharan ji
this is just the beginning ...ab se sab acha hi hoga
leave on baba how you both will talk
just pray that her reports should be normal ......then everything will be alright
om sai ram...baba bless you and ur sabina
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: saicharandhool on July 08, 2009, 04:13:46 AM
Saisanji..main pata nahi kaise aap logon ka shukriya karoon..itna pyar aur chinta to koi apne hi kar sakte hai.
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: saisan on July 08, 2009, 04:17:05 AM
om sai ram charan ji
we are bound with one thread that is sai baba...
sab baba ki kripa hai.say thanks to him
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: saisan on July 08, 2009, 04:25:46 AM
i even don't know whether he still loves me or not ..........
isliye baba se mange me thoda awkward lagtha hai ...
he is just testing me
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: gunj on July 08, 2009, 05:51:02 AM
oM SAI RAM MANISHJI

AGAR WO APKO AAJ CALL NAHI KARTI HAI TOH KAL AAP OFFIE K BAAD USE DEKHNE JAA SAKTE HO.PATA KIJIYE JYADA TABIYAT TOH KHARAB NAHI HUI NA UNKI,JUST TAKE CARE OF HER AND THIS TIME PLD DNT LET HER GO COZ OF ANY STUPID FIGHTS AND ANGER
SORRY IF I HURT U BY SAYING THE ABOVE WORDS

BUT I M ALSO A GAL AND WE HAVE SO SOFT HEART WHICH BREAK EASILY BUT WITH LOVE OF A LOVED ONE IT CAN BE FIX ,SO GIVE UR LOVE TO HER AND OUR PRAY FOR U BOTH WILL ALWAYS BE THERE
PLS READ MY POST UNDER SUBJECT HELP ME SAINATH,I HAVE AN ODD DREAM
om SAi Ram..Mujhe usne kaha ki usse naya number lena hai..she said she will call from daddy's cell..Uske daddy ke saath mera koi problem nahi tha..He made me sit and zadbardasti khaana khilaya..uske ghar se main nikal gaya jab usne kaha ki main kisi aur se shaadi kar loon par phir woh apne daddy ke saath bahar station ki tarah jaa rahi to main phir uske peeche gaya ek rose diya phir uske daddy,main aur woh hotel mein baithe thodi der..uske baad main aur woh station pe khade khade baat karte rahe ek ghante tak...ab pata nahi un baaton ka uspar kuch asar hua ya nahi..maine usse bataya main ab kya sochta hoon..par mere paas koi # nahi usse call karne ke liye
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: saicharandhool on July 09, 2009, 12:14:42 AM
Om sai ram..Usne kal 10 min ke liye call kiya tha..woh purani baatein bata rahi thi..aisa lagta hai jaise sirf mujhe pyar hai aur main hi yeh rishta jodna chahta hoon..use kuch kaam tha kaha 5 min mein phone karegi par nahi kiya..i love her a lot but dont want to force har..maine to sab baba ke haath de diya hai jo karegaa manzoor hai
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: saisan on July 09, 2009, 12:50:40 AM
om sai ram
charanji , its good that she called me, it will take time for her to come back to normal like you were before.
its good that she is expressing and wants you to understand her why she is away, how is her health
give her some time slowly slowly she wil change..just keep in touch with her ...saying Hi, how r u?.
don't worry one more positive has happned. she called means she thinks about you
don't worry pray to baba for her well being...rest leave to baba he will take care of all the things
have faith
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: saicharandhool on July 09, 2009, 12:56:10 AM
om SAI ram..Yes I do understand that it was positive on her behalf to call but then was it just b'coz she had promised and not b'coz was keen to talk to me..I understand things cant change overnight it will take time..She was supposed to get her blood report today morning..I have told her that I wont call her and disturb..I will talk to her whenever she wants to..
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: saisan on July 09, 2009, 01:02:38 AM
see charan ji , few days back you din't know where she is ..now atleast she in touch with you ..you know what's going on with her.so sai is working on ur issue that's why things are moving.let baba handle this.anyways you can't force her.
i feel that she is thinking about you isliye call kiya .....otherwise she can give any excuse..atleast usko yaad hai ki she promised you.
say her that you will call her when she needs you.let her get cured first then you can talk to her remianing now only have small talk and just listen to her what ever she says.....
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: gunj on July 09, 2009, 01:14:52 AM
OM SAI RAM MANISHJI

ACHA LAGA SUNKE KI UNHONE APKO CALL KIA ISKA MATLAB HAI KI WO BHI APKO PYAAR KARTI HAI AGAR UNKE DIL ME KUCH NAHI HOTA TOH WO CALL NAHI KARTI,TIME LAGEGA PAR WOH JARUR EK DIN APSE KEH DENGI JO KI WO BHI APKE SAATH RAHNA CHAHTI HAI.TIME IS THE BEST MEDICINE,KEEP IN CONTACT WITH HER AND TAKE CARE,SHOW HER UR LOVE,UR CHANGES .SHE WILL SURELY ACCEPT ONE DAY DAT U REALLY CHANGE FOR HER

BABA BLESS ALL

OM SAI RAM
Om sai ram..Usne kal 10 min ke liye call kiya tha..woh purani baatein bata rahi thi..aisa lagta hai jaise sirf mujhe pyar hai aur main hi yeh rishta jodna chahta hoon..use kuch kaam tha kaha 5 min mein phone karegi par nahi kiya..i love her a lot but dont want to force har..maine to sab baba ke haath de diya hai jo karegaa manzoor hai
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: saicharandhool on July 09, 2009, 01:21:07 AM
Gunj..Om sai ram..Haan yahin socha hai when she calls back I wont even ask why she did not call me back..I will express my love and wait for her to understand,absorb and react to it..Agar pyar saccha ho to laakh control karo woh ruk nahi sakta..Baba ne mujhe usse milwakar ek lifeline to de hi di hai..aage bhi wohi sambhalenge jaise ki saisanji ne kaha hai...aap batao..aapko koi help mili aapki exams ke liye? kya unse baat hui?

Saisanji..Aapne kaha you dont know whether she loves you or not..kya aap unse baat nahi karte? hua kya tha kya aap bata sakte hai?
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: gunj on July 09, 2009, 01:21:26 AM
OM SAI RAM MANISHJI

SAISAN JI THIK BOL RAHE HAI AGAR UNKO CALL KARNA NAHI HOTA TOH O BAHAN BANA LETI HUM PROMISE KISK SAATH KARK NIBHATE HAI JISE HUM CHAHTE AUR AUR JO HUMEIN ACHA LAGTA HO,ABHI WO THODI PARESHAN HI APKA CHANGES DEKH KAR UNHE YAKIN KARNE MEIN MUSHKIL HORAHA HOGA KI AAP AISE KAISE ITNA CHANEG HOGAYE HAI UNHE YE CHANGES APNANE MEINTIME LAGEGA,WO APKO TEST BHI KAR SAKTI HAI,WO APSE AISE BEHAVE YA AISI BAATEIN BOLEGI KI AAP GUSSA KARE JAGDA KARE PAR YAHA APKO SAMAJHDARI DIKHAKE PYAR SE BAAT KARNI HOGI CHAHE WO GUSSA KARE APKO PYAR SE BAAT KARNI HOGI,WO KHUD AISA KUCH KAREGI JISSE UNHE YAKIN HOJAYEGA KI AAP BADAL CHUKE HAO,KYUKI MAIN BHI EK LADKI HU AUR MAIN BHI AISA HI KARTI AGAR MERE SATH AISA HOTA,YA APKA BAHOT DYAN DEKE BAATEIN KARNI PADEGI ,AAP BHADAKE AGAR TOH SAB KUCH HAATH SE NIKAL JAYEGA,APNE APKO CONTROL KARNA PADEGA

Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: gunj on July 09, 2009, 01:26:59 AM
ABHI TAK TOH KOI HELP NAHI MILI EXAMS KO LEKE ,AND UNSE TOH BAAT HOTI HAI DAILY KAL MILI BHI UNSE,KAL HUMEI1.8 YEARS COMPLETE HOGAYE HAI.MAINE UNHE KAHA KI AB GHAR PAR BAAT BATA DO PNE DAD KO FIR AGE MAIN AATI HU SAATH MEIN  BAAT KAREGE UNHE MANAN LEGE.

SAISANJI AAP BATIYE APKI PROBLEM HUMEIN APNE BUS LIKHA HAI KI U DONT TALK,BUT WHAT WAS HAPPEN ,IF U DNT HAVE NE PROBLEM SHARE IT HERE.

OM SAI RAM
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: saisan on July 09, 2009, 01:58:01 AM
om sai ram
charanji,
yes, i am nt in to relation with him now, i left him 2 yrs back,he calls me sometime to know how i am.
when he said marraige is not possible ...i ended the relation.he is ready to continue as freind.tho abhi mujhe pata nahin vo mujhse pyar kartha hai ki nahin.he just talks to me as friend.and also it pains when he tells me abt his proposals and
his parents are looking for prposals tho he will get enageged anytime.tho i don't know what baba has thought for me.my parents also looking for proposals.i left everything to baba
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: saicharandhool on July 09, 2009, 02:30:30 AM
Saisanji..Thanks for sharing your feelings..I can understand how it feels when somebody whom you loved says he just wants to be friends and speaks about marriage with someone else..I was shattered when she told me that you go ahead and marry someone else...Have faith in baba and he will bless you with his miracle.
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: saisan on July 09, 2009, 02:41:26 AM
om sai
hope so he will bless me.
he cried like anything when i said to end the relation, what is the use being with the person who can't marry.
after i ended i use to avoid him, not take up his call...bcz he use to call me now n then n ask me to be with him as freind.i avoided him for 7-8 months now he stopped asking me to be freind with me ...yeh kya when he wants me to love  and when he wants freind  shud be freind or what..mere bhi kuch feeling hai na....but still now he only calls me he don't have ego and we meet coincidently.i show him that i don't love him anymore......
he also shows that he just cares abt me.........it pains
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: gunj on July 09, 2009, 03:10:15 AM
om sai ram saisan ji

agar apn dono ek dusre se pyar karte the toh apnbe try kyu nahi kia family ko manane k lia,whch caste u n he belongs,what was the problems ,if u ended the relation so y u feel the pain,u have to be strong enough,i know how its feel to end a lond realtion ,pyar ko kasie maar sakte hai hum,magar aap unse baat karti hai toh aap unhe bhul nahi payegi,apna pyar nahi bhul payegi.
agar apko lagta hai ki abhi bhi kuch umide hai abhi bhi wo apko pyar karte hai toh give a chance ask him directly.
if u feeling he doesnt love u nemore ,i will suggest not to be contact with him coz it hurts u,aap roti hai pata hai kyu kyuki aap unse baat karti hai wo apni life k baare mein batate hai isse apko bura lagta hai kyuki u still love him.'
sorry if i hurt ur feeling

baba apko rah dikhaye

om sai ram
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: Well-wisher on July 09, 2009, 03:11:31 AM
:) I hope Baba blesses you with his love, true love...
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: saisan on July 09, 2009, 03:21:11 AM
om sai ram gunj ji,
hamara problem hai ki his pandit ji din't give permission to marry, he says we r not good for each other itseems.his parents n he believe him they will not go against him.uski mom bhi nahin chahti mujhe ..so i feel it was biased decision.we are not separated bcz he doesn't love me. so now he has stopped all feelings towards me and he is going to get married to what his parents will tell him.
i don't know whether i shud be with him and convince him or just go away from him
agar mein uske sath hoti tho he will not feel guilty and waise i can't be with him when he is not marrying me.
i don't know what to do baba shud help me.
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: gunj on July 09, 2009, 03:39:39 AM
om sai ram saisanji

agar jab apko pata chal gaya hai ki apke frnd k dil mein feeling nahi hai apke lia,apne apko ko samajhao jaise woh life mein age badh gaye hai aap ko bhi aage badh jana chahiye,apki family bhi chahti hogi apki marriage karne k lia,aap bhi unhe bhulake aage bad jaie.aap is pakad k baithi ki toh apko hi taklif hogi,aap unke contact mein hai jab unki shaadi paki hojayegi us din aapko bahot taklif hogi,apki achai k lia kehti hu apko ki pls move on.apk lia sai ne kuch socha hoga baba pe bharosa rakhe aur apne apko strong pls mera mane toh unki life se dur hojan kyuki jab unki shaadi hojayegi ,wo apko dekhege toh apne apko guilty feel karege

If my words hurt u pls forgive for the same

i just tell u considering u as my frnd

om sai ram
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: saisan on July 09, 2009, 03:49:46 AM
om sai ram gunj ji ,
i am assuming that he doesn't have feeling for me, he is not expressing to me may be ..as i though i love him i don't show him..i show him as if i don't think abt him.also he feels bad when any proposals come for me and when they don't happen he feels happy..he never encourages me to get married to others and instead if i think anything positive about any proposal ..he scolds me not to do that.
i am not waiting for him, my parents are also looking proposals for me also.
i am waiting for baba to change the situation and get me married to him
when i went to shirdi ....i just wanted to pray baba for my marriage ....at baba's samadhi...i touched n prayed but unknowingly my guys name came to my mouth....ki "get me married to him"pata nahin was it baba's message or what don't know.
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Post by: gunj on July 09, 2009, 04:09:37 AM
om  sai ram

dont worrry just leave it on baba ,baba ne apke lia kuch soch k rakha hoga,jo bhi hota hai aur jo hoga baba ki marzi se hoga,aap apne apko strong kare,agar wo apko scold karte hai jab aap proposal ko leke positive feel dikhati ho,thn ask him y he do so ,if he dnt want to maray u,thn whot his problm y he stoping u to think of ur marriage proposal.jo humein mil nahi sakta uske piche apni life dene mein samadhari nahi hai balki jo apke parents proposal laarahe hai uspe dyan de agar sach mein baba ne apko milanae ka socha hai toh baba apko kaise bhi mila dege ,baba sab acha karege,baba pe chod dijiye sab kuch,om sai ram om sai ram
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Post by: saisan on July 09, 2009, 04:16:07 AM
i am not in his life, the i left him i never called him from my side.he is the one who calls me
initailly i use to ignore him but now i am just picking up his call and talking. we are at the same place isliye galti se mil jathe hai vo bhi most of the times thursday hi hota hai ......u know even i pray baba plz don't make me meet him i get pain..........either get me married to him or remove his feelings for me...both things doesn't happen.
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Post by: gunj on July 09, 2009, 04:35:00 AM
om sai ram

dont be sad,be strong,dnt wait be happy ,if he really want u thn he sud get married to u,aapko bhi koi milega jo apko khub pyaar dega,just forgot and pls move on,agar aap unke baare mein sochti rahegi gi toh aaap apne apko dukh degi,pls dnt feel hurt by my word i knw i might be harsh in using so word.but its the fact ,sai apki maddat kare jo apke lia acha ho sai wo apko de,sai bless her with happiness.om sai ram''
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Post by: saisan on July 09, 2009, 04:53:01 AM
yes for him only problem is his pandit ji's permission, which i am thinking baba can change it.
so i am just waiting for something to happen, either get married to others or him.
both not happening .kya chathe hai baba...baba knows
in 5 yrs me aisa nahin huwa kabhi ki we have nt seen each other for long .with in 2 months baba makes me meet him.
the last i met was 15 days back vo bhi we crossed each other coincidently
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Post by: gunj on July 09, 2009, 05:02:09 AM
om sai ram

can i ask u as a frnd what his pandit told,r u from diff caste and whch.
r u from mumbai

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Post by: saisan on July 09, 2009, 05:06:37 AM
his mom asked that pandit ji whether we can get married or not by showing our horoscopes.he said NO
his mom doesn't like me a bit..she hates me.......... tho i feel it must be influenced
uski mom ne hum dono ko alag karne ki bahut koshish ki...... so finally from his pnadit she removed the risk of our marriage.
he is also not happy .....he was saying ki ..he is not happy in life ...
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: SAUMYA on July 09, 2009, 11:47:53 PM
Hi manish,
Is everything going well?how is your mother
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Post by: saicharandhool on July 09, 2009, 11:56:05 PM
Dear Sister..Maa is having pain in her leg but still she goes down every morning to temple and feed the needy ones..How r u? Thought of writing to you yesterday then I thought you will read my post and respond...How r things with you?
Gunj, Saisan..How r u ?.She had called yesterday in the night and she has been diagonsed with jaundice we spoke for few minutes where I just expressed what I feel..she told me that she will call in the morning and late night she sent me a message asking me to take care of myself..
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Post by: saisan on July 10, 2009, 12:12:01 AM
om sai ram
saicharanji , im ok, one more day gone without anything.very good progress, she will be ok, even i got jaundice once, she will be alright within 15 days.don't worry about her.i can say ur story is on track now.she loves you for sure.now please keep the same pace be like this for some days, ur turn is over now let her get well soon then she will come back to normal like before, till that time just be with her, don't expect anything from her.bcz she must be tired so she needs complete rest.baba will take care of her and you and your family don't worry.baba is there to guide you. one more thing ask baba in every step you take now.may baba bless you soon.
om sai ram
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Post by: saicharandhool on July 10, 2009, 12:21:51 AM
Om sai ram..Every empty day will bring double the happiness in your life in future this my wish and pray which will be fulfilled by baba..I know that she loves me and I can wait for her par pata nahi kyun yeh darr hai ki woh apni zid nahi chodegi..main problem in our case is age difference I am 30 and she is 20 that doesnt work in my favour she has lot of time and I dont have much..I love her and I have surrrendered to baba 100%..take care
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Post by: gunj on July 10, 2009, 12:26:21 AM
om sai ram manishiji

how r u ,i m fine,nice to hear that she calls u at nite,and also sent u the mgs ,its sure that she loves u bus not showing it to u openely,dnt worry now baba is there with u,bhot khusi horahi hai ki aap ki manant puri ho rahi hai,just be with her and give her all the love .pyar se kya mumkin nahi hai,wo apni zid chodegi trust me,main khud bahot ziddhi hu par jab mera pyar mujhe pyaar deta hai manata hai toh meri zid apne khatmm hojati hai


om sai ram saisan ji how r u,

aapne sahi kaha panditji ko influnced kia hoga,and y people belive in pandit aajkal ek ache sidh pandit kam hi milte hai jo sab sahi bata de,warna baki toh bus paiso k lia kaam karte hai.pandit ne agar kuch problem batayi hai toh uska solution bhi hota hai.
aap apna khyal rakhe.

om sai ram
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: saisan on July 10, 2009, 12:31:55 AM
om sai ram charan ji,
thanks for your prayer, hope baba listen to me soon and give me happiness.
don't worry ...kaha na baba has initaited your file,now things will improve slowly but in baba's way.have faith all things will be alright.

om sai ram gunj ji
im ok thanks how r u?
solution is we shud nt get married that's it.
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Post by: gunj on July 10, 2009, 12:36:25 AM
om saisan ji
 pls dont get upset by this,if u know what is going to happen now sao pls dont hurt urself by thinking of him,just enjoy ur life as he does,use bura laga raha hai ki apko koi proposal pasand aate hai toh kya matlab jab unke pass time tha aapse shaadi karne ka tab unhone us pandit ki baat suni ,now y he stop u to think about marriage. i will say just move on and accept  a gud proposal for u chosen by ur parents.om sai ram.sorry if i hurt u.

Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: saisan on July 10, 2009, 12:52:19 AM
om sai ram gunj ji
i am not upset, i already moved on dear ...i don't talk to him and i don't meet him, i never call him, i don't know what's happening at his side.when he calls i wil come to know.i meet him when he asks me to and i go if i feel like or else i say NO
i am not waiting for him.i am just waiting for baba to decide for me the guy him or someother simple.
i got some proposals but none is working.i also feel bad when he gets proposal and i also feel happy when they don't work.mein yeh nahin chahti ki ho.
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Post by: gunj on July 10, 2009, 12:58:04 AM
om sai ram

ths is the problem dear u still have the feeling aap apne aapse puche agar aap sach me move kar chuki hai toh y u feel sad wen he get proposal,ths indicate that u still have feeling thats y u get ths feeling,jab tak aap unse koi bhi feeling ka rishta rakhti hai tab tak aap is uljhan se nahi nikal payegi,aap kehti hai ki apne chod dia hai unhe aur umid par apk dil me feeling ab bhi hai,
om sai ram ,aap kya karti hai job ,whch post n whr r u frm
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Post by: saicharandhool on July 10, 2009, 01:02:45 AM
Gunj..OM sai ram..Sorry to interfere in your talks but its natural jab tak saisan ki life mein koi aur nahi aata tab tak naturally unhe sad feel hoga but I feel you should flow with it..dont try to curb your feelings..jaisa naturally ho raha hai hone do..let the pain go out..I went through similar situation when my ex - girlfriend got married...
Title: Re: Strange story..kind of miracle
Post by: saisan on July 10, 2009, 01:13:40 AM
feeling tho rahegi jab tak baba mere shaadi kisi aur se nahin karadenge
i feel bad bcz i love him and love kabhi nahin marta its unconditional love.
i feel happy ki he also has feeling for me.im not stopping him to get married with others.
i am not sitting and crying for him.if i want i can meet him ...a just call away....we are in same place.but i don't do ..i feel its no use.i did say yes to proposals and also will get married if baba wishes.....
i asked baba about this ,baba ne dream me kaha ki vo mere sath hai...so im waiting for his answers.
baba can do miracles......i have faith in baba vo jo bhi karenge acha hoga meri loye
im IT professional from b'lore
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Post by: saicharandhool on July 10, 2009, 01:26:35 AM
Saisan..nice to hear that you believe in yourself and baba..I also work for an IT company..Mera bahut man karta hai usse baat karne ka par main use pareshaan nahi karna chahta call karke..agar usse meri yaad ayegi to zaroor call karegi..Maine usse Jaundice ke liye kya diet follow karni chahiye woh sms kar di hai..ek baar phone try kiya poochne ke liye ki doctor ke paas gayi thi ya nahi..pata nahi I want to hear her saying that she loves me and cant live without me.
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Post by: SAUMYA on July 10, 2009, 01:32:54 AM
HI SAISAN AND MANISH
if you both don't mind can i ask you both how old u r?
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Post by: saicharandhool on July 10, 2009, 01:34:35 AM
I am 30 year old..
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Post by: gunj on July 10, 2009, 01:37:27 AM
om sai ram saisanji and manishji

saisan ji good aap apne apko ko job me busy kare bacho k saath khele society k ,hase aur hasaye dusro ko bhi ,jab hum dil khol ke haste hai na toh sare gum dur hojate hai,agar apko rona ata hai toh ek baar dil khol k role taki apke dil ka bhoj halaka hojaye jab main pareshan hoti hu na toh main roti hu isse mujhe aacha lagta hai.dil halaka hojat hai.ya baatein kare frnds se jo dil mein hai wo ,laughfing is a gud medicine,main sabki hasati rehti hu fir chahe log mujhpe kyu na has de pa acha lagta hai mujhe hasana.hasate raho aap kisi ko agar hsati ho unk saath 10 logo ko bhi aap hsati ho kiase kyuki agar hum ek ko hasate hai wo jake apni khusi aur hsai dusre ko pass on karta hai and keep on gng like ths. ;D ;D

manishji aab apko patience rakhna hoga  jo aap chaha rahe hai wo jald hi pura hoga,jaundice hai so she have to take most care as its a rainy season too,water boil karke lene ko kaha hoga doctor na kya wo le rahi hai.keep ur love going more and more for her she will surely one day tells u wot u want to hear from her.om sai ram :)
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Post by: SAUMYA on July 10, 2009, 01:47:15 AM
sister kaha hai isiliye bol rahi hoon.......i m 33....ek kaan ke neechey bajaoongi na pyar ka yeh jo nasha hai na thoda kam hoga.......ma ke pair me dard hai........unke liye kya karna hai,iski chinta nahi hai......TCS mey ho bhai ka resume doston ke through forward karvao.........agar shadi hoke bachey hue rehte na toh pata chalta.......jab woh beemar hote khana nahi khatey.........office mey recession ka mahoul rehta.........pyar pyar........
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Post by: saicharandhool on July 10, 2009, 01:57:24 AM
Haan main jaanta hoon.aap ki maar bhi khaa loonga...samjhta hoon..shaadi sirf mummy ke liye hi karna chahta hoon..mummy doctor ke paas nahi chalti bahut ziddi hai..bhai ke liye maine office mein try kiya but filhaal openings nahi hai...aisa nahi hai ki main zimmedariyaan nahi samjhta par kahin na kahin jaanta hoon meri shaadi hote hi yeh chain of events tutengi aur ghar mein khushi aayegi..right now everybody is disturbed in their own way.
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Post by: SAUMYA on July 10, 2009, 02:02:54 AM
chup raho.shadi maa ke liye karunga.sabina ke sath bhi?come out of this..........LTC toh milti hai na TCS mey........ma aur bhai ke saath kahi bahar ghoom ke kyon nahi aate.........you know manish......i tell you this pyar is such a topic  everybody will give suggession.......the more you talk the more suggessions.......go to some holy places with mother........she will feel good......
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Post by: saisan on July 10, 2009, 02:17:02 AM
om sai ram
gunj ji, i again tell you i am not sad, i am happy and will be happy
i don't brood over anything, i have so many things in life other than thinking abt him, i have my carrier,i have lot of freinds
i love my parents and my family like anything they are my life....my love is not my life,
hope you know my condition....mujhe rona nahin ata .....tho why shud i cry dear.i have asked baba and with full faith im waiting for his decision............ vo kab kaha kaise baba jane...haa thoda waiting boring lagtha hai.... but it stays for seconds.may baba bless u and be with you always
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Post by: gunj on July 10, 2009, 02:29:25 AM
om sai ram saisan ji

apne shayad mujhe galat le lia hai,nice to know that u r happy and sai bless u with more happiness and with a good groom soon,how is ur family ,how many member are there in ur family

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Post by: saisan on July 10, 2009, 02:43:47 AM
om sai ram charanji
thanks...hope baba will bless me and he comes back to me and we get married soon.
baba plz show ur miracle ..im waiting for you miracle.
don't worry soon that day will come soon as per baba's wish when she will come and say what u want.
even i am waiting for it. om sai ram

thanks gunj ji for ur wishes.
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Post by: gunj on July 11, 2009, 01:04:14 AM
om sai ram manishji
saisanji

how r u,

manishji apki baat hui unse,ab unki tabiyat kaisi hai unki report mein kya aya hai.
saisan ji aap kaisi hai .and ur family
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Post by: saicharandhool on July 12, 2009, 11:41:15 PM
OM sai ram..gunj meri baat to usse roz hi hoti hai par woh sirf meri baatein sunti hai zyada kuch kehti nahi..She just said sorry to me for all the things and said she was wrong in leaving me that way but still she is not ready for relation...Bahut takleef hoti hai when I see her not behaving normally but then its okay..uski tabiyat abhi theek nahi..jaundice confirmed hai..aur aap sunao kaise ho???
Saisanji..om sai ram..kya chal raha hai life mein? hope you are fine.
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Post by: gunj on July 12, 2009, 11:47:55 PM
om sai ram manishji

aap kaise hai,dotor kuch kaha hai ki kab tak unki tabiyat thik hojayegi.and apki mother ki health kaisi hai.aur saturday and sunday ko kya unse mulakat ya baat hui ,ab kaisi hai wo,any progress in her health.
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Post by: saisan on July 12, 2009, 11:52:46 PM
om sai ram
charanji, i am good thank you,it will be almost 1 month i saw or spoke to him.

How r u? Its good progress, she realized her mistake and regretting that a very good news and good progress as well.
u be with her the same way you r with her right now.don't worry everything will be alright soon and she will be normal as before don't worry its matter of only few days...itne din intezar kiya thoda aur sahi .....
Let her get well first then she will be normal, she must be tired and plz take care of her..just be now a helping shoulder for her.

Gunj ji, i am good and my family too by baba's grace, how r u?
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Post by: saicharandhool on July 12, 2009, 11:58:11 PM
Saisanji..OM sai ram..Thanks for your kind words and whatever has happened has b'coz of prayers from all of you..I m trying to be just a helping shoulder and somewhere I know she loves me but I dont know what is stopping her..I pray that you get your true life partner very soon.
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Post by: gunj on July 13, 2009, 12:01:29 AM
om sai ram saisanji

i m gud,chal rahi hai life baba ki kripa se,

manishji
achi baat hai wo dheere dheer normal horahi hai aaj unko apni galati samjh aayi hai kal wo bhi aajayege.

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Post by: saisan on July 13, 2009, 12:04:41 AM
charan ji,thanks for the wishes, i want to get married to him...i love him and can't forget him..hope baba does some miracle and  he comes back to me.

may be due to her past expereince she is not confident, after few days she will realize that u have changed and give her confidence that u will take care of her and love her whole heartedly then she will be comfortable in expressing her love.
time will do that by baba's grace.don't worry at all, pray for her health that she will get well soon
we will also pray for her heath. baba cure her fast and give ur blessig to both of them ,call them for ur darshan soon.
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Post by: SAUMYA on July 13, 2009, 12:28:20 AM
Dear saisan.Hi.Mai aapki bahut sarey post dekhi hoon...i can understand your pain.Have you ever experienced the pain of geting heart attack of father because of our love with a boy who ditched....i hope no....bhagwan kissi ko hi aisa din na dikhaye.......but i have seen.....Ek taraf toh aap kehti hai i want to get married soon....doosri taraf woh nahi aaya roti hai......with this double mind do you think you can do justice to your future husband?Come out dear with the false hope.....be healthy and happy....unhappy raogi toh beemar dikhogi n nobody will like youthen again depression....kahin shadi nahi ho rahi baba koi miracle kar do..........I request all the devotees whoever r suffering with this pain....if there is any possibility of getting the love continue or just ..................i don't want to hurt any body.pls help the needy people than this false hope n never ending intezar
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Post by: saicharandhool on July 13, 2009, 12:49:09 AM
Saumya didi...How r u? I understand you are trying to help all of us as you have experienced pretty tough things and I cant even imagine myself in that situation..Thanks for guiding us..god bless u.
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Post by: saisan on July 13, 2009, 12:49:44 AM
om sai ram SAUMYA,
thanks for the post, let me tell you,for me first is my baba my parents(they are my life i have sacrified a lot for my familiy and this is the first time i have thought abt me to like one guy and have a wish to get him as husband if baba wishes)
i am not in pain , i am happy with what ever situation im bcz its baba's wish, this is dwarkamaye and a good midium t oexpress ur feelings to baba.i am praying here and putting my feelings to baba, i am not crying, i am not sad , im just waiting for baba's decision to choose a good life partner for me, i want to get married bcz my parents wants to see me get married as every ones parents wants.
haan usme meri shaadi usse ho jaye usse shaadi karu tho acha ...if baba nahin chahthe tho vo jinse shaadi karenge karvaye... baba knows my wish tho faith rakhna galat hai kya ....baba se mangna mera kaam hai ..its his wish if he gives or not.i will be happy with whomever baba wishes.thanks for understanding

i do help needy people and have helped so many people with what ever i can.
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Post by: SAUMYA on July 13, 2009, 12:57:23 AM
saisan.......you r fortunate to sacrifice your life for family...that's so good of you.for your good deed you will definately get reward.from baba.Very soon you will get a very good ,caring.and loving man as your life partner......This is my strong belief.because you will never come empty hands from baba's dwar.HE WILL GIVE WHAT YOU NEED YOU,BUT NOT WANT YOU WANT YOU.And that will be the best goft n reward for all your good deeds
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Post by: vijayashri on July 13, 2009, 01:39:48 AM
thank you sai ram for answering my prayers and i prayed until i think i did things right, i am an ignorant child of you, thank you for forgiving me and my sins, thank you dear Sai Ram , thank you Baba for all the answers, i appreicated your help to all your devotees to wash sins and make our life peaceful, thank you again Baba, we all love you, you are our mother who will never make us lose we know that thank you for being our mother and lift us when we fall down,  thank you for accepting us and thank you for correcting all of us to bring peace to others from us and to get peaceful lifes to all of us here dear Sai Baba. thank you again forgiving my sins, thank you for forgiving all our sins to make all our lifes working for all of us. We love and we have our devotion to you all the time dear Baba
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Post by: saisan on July 13, 2009, 02:20:36 AM
thanks saumya ji
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Post by: shyama77 on August 09, 2009, 03:48:15 AM
charan ji baba will bless you surely

JAI SAI NATH !