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Offline ashokjain

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Re: Is my prayer gone be answered
« Reply #15 on: July 15, 2012, 02:07:05 AM »
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  • This is my frequently used id, i use it when i need to post as mag-editor, else i use my old id. And i am not few weeks old here.  :) 

    I do not need to explain you even, but i am doing it because i can see that you are seething with anger, because of something and no matter who comes in your way, you are going to vent out your anger to him. Innocent, man, woman, child, new comer or old comer; you have lost your judgment completely here.

    I am not going to come to argue with you because you are not going to see any point. Your anger has blinded you enough. I told you the way to get solutions to your problems, but you did not see it either.

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    Re: Is my prayer gone be answered
    « Reply #16 on: July 16, 2012, 02:43:08 AM »
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  • Om sai ram

    Anupam ji  first I’d like to say ,I am  happy to see your post again  in this forum

    Secondly I also feel whatever Ashokji  has said, is correct in each and every word ..

    I guess you took him in wrong way

    By Ashokji<<<I have the understanding that the genuine intent of people to reply and help should not be misused by
    people. There is no sincerity behind the questions asked by the person. No one can pull any one out of ditch ; not even God, unless the person is willing and making efforts. Without efforts, actually without sincere efforts and real
    intent nothing is attained. And efforts yield results in time and one has to be patient.>>>

    It is strange, that you ignored all good intention behind this post ..and you  pointed out only few words..

    I agree with you that nothing wrong asking about genuine problem ..that’s why I replied to him…but as well as Ashok
    ji also right ..genuine problem in some extent, you can ask ..but it should not be beyond the limit ..after all this is
    spiritual forum ..and we should not forget this fact.

    And Ashok ji only pointed out the way ..how he (3vel4india) was taking others ,who was replying him and trying to
    help him in genuine way ..

    And I must say “Thanks ” to Ashok ji that he could feel the same as I felt ..( Though I was expecting this kind of
    replying from him )

     I have been following his post since long and I never felt, he was ever serious about his post or his problem ..his  post and his reply has been shown that ..

    Anupam ji I remember of all your old conversation with this guy, where you replied to this person..at the last you
    yourself got irritate after seeing his reply  ….that was reflected in your last few posts ..which was for him

    I still remember that you asked him to do 108 Hanuman Chalisha In a day ..  and how he made many excuse and after
    that he went disappeared for few weeks ..

    Anupam ji it is been long that I also wanted to say same thing which Ashok ji said to you .. unfortunately  ..I 
    could also feel your wrath towards  moderators after that “Incident”  .. it has been reflecting in your each post ..  but 
    I couldn’t say to you bcz I was apprehensive that you might be  take me otherwise ..like you did this time with
    Ashokji 

    Anupan ji ..Who we are to judging you ..while we are unable to judge our self..

    Anupanji I am very new and ignorant In front of You all Saibji, Ashokji and You Yourself ..So this is my humble
    request , Pls forgive m ,If I crossed my limit during reply …



    Om Sai Ram



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    Re: Is my prayer gone be answered
    « Reply #17 on: July 16, 2012, 02:53:50 AM »
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  • I have the understanding that the genuine intent of people to reply and help should not be misused by people. There is no sincerity behind the questions asked by the person. No one can pull any one out of ditch ; not even God, unless the person is willing and making efforts. Without efforts, actually without sincere efforts and real intent nothing is attained. And efforts yield results in time and one has to be patient.

    While using public forum, it is important to observe some set of rules regarding the language used. Forum is visited by people of all ages, so observe some intelligence while you ask your questions.
    If someone has any issue with moderation, with working of this forum, contact Ravi and i am sure there is nothing being played here as someone said it. I am not going to delve much into what the person wrote here. From his reply it is evident that he is frustrated because of something and is looking at every opportunity to vent out that. I reiterate if someone want solutions to his concerns, use the right approach and that is to contact Ravi. Using unrelated threads to voice your opinion is definitely not the right way and not going to help you or forum and would not provide solutions to your problems.

    And 3val4india, what help do you need here? Please state that clearly. And you never really replied to people's detailed replies which were meant to help/guide you. So, what kind of help are you seeking here? If you are not comfortable in english, you may use hindi to communicate.

    This is my frequently used id, i use it when i need to post as mag-editor, else i use my old id. And i am not few weeks old here.  :) 

    I do not need to explain you even, but i am doing it because i can see that you are seething with anger, because of something and no matter who comes in your way, you are going to vent out your anger to him. Innocent, man, woman, child, new comer or old comer; you have lost your judgment completely here.

    I am not going to come to argue with you because you are not going to see any point. Your anger has blinded you enough. I told you the way to get solutions to your problems, but you did not see it either.


    KIND ATTENTION: ASHOK JI

    OM SAI RAM!!!

    “Peace be to all”

    "I have the understanding that the genuine intent of people to reply and help
    should not be misused by people. There is no sincerity behind the questions asked by the person"

    "While using public forum, it is important to observe some set of rules regarding the language used.
    Forum is visited by people of all ages, so observe some intelligence while you ask your questions".


    I believe that humbleness and non judgment are two qualities that BABA would like all of us to
    possess and act on.

    Let us understand that it is the emotion hidden behind the words in the posts that finally reach BABA.

    There instead of judging it in terms of language and intent, we need to be supportive and compassionate –
    a response based in compassion and trust. This is BABA’s Divine Forum, a means to express ourselves,
    to converse with BABA, to seek BABA's advice (through HIS devotees) and blessings, in devotion and with love.
    If we remain rooted in goodness, in non judgmental mode, then this will take us closer to BABA.


    "I do not need to explain you even, but i am doing it because i can see that you are
    seething with anger,"


    "you have lost your judgment completely here."

    "I am not going to come to argue with you because you are not going to see any point. Your anger has
    blinded you enough. I told you the way to get solutions to your problems, but you did not see it either".


    And like many of us, when we point one finger in direction of the other, in blame, we often
    forget that 4 fingers are pointing right back to us. Just as Kabir had sung “Bura jo Dekhan Mai Chala,
    Bura na Milya Koi, Jo dil Khoja Aapne, Mujse  bura na koi.”


    "and i am sure there is nothing being played here as someone said it".

    Very often, we try and make sense of a situation, just on the face value. Let us refrain from
    immediate reactions but try and take time to understand the situation from various perspectives and then
    respond.

    So, in full faith and love for BABA, let us call it a full stop to this series of exchange.

    May BABA guide us all to begin the day on a note of deeper understanding, stronger faith and higher levels
    of love and compassion.


    MAY BABA SHOWER HIS BLESSINGS ON ALL OF US!

    OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM!!!


    If you are sad n in pain, Be as the ocean, and release. The ocean tides don't pause and hold in anything, they ebb...and then they flow. Only briefly holding on top of a wave for a moment. If something from your past bubbles up, simply take a deep breath, and let it go. More love!
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    Re: Is my prayer gone be answered
    « Reply #18 on: July 16, 2012, 06:20:18 AM »
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  • My sincere thanks to all (Saialwayshere) who could see my point. For those who did not, I would just state my stand here once again. I have nothing for or against anybody. 

    The contrasts in the world provide the necessary friction as opportunity for everyone to grow and learn. So, it depends at which level judgment is applied. For peace to reign each and every one of us should adhere to certain set of principles. Forum is a collective entity. Every member is important in absolute sense as each and every one of us is part of God in absolute sense. But till we realise that we need to follow some basic set of principles.

    Wisdom is to discern through appearances. A sincere seeker would appear different than a non-sincere seeker. If you read my post again you would understand what i meant. There are people who are sincere in replying, in consoling and helping those who are in distress. But mind it, you can help people in true sense only when they are willing. At certain point of time you would figure out their intent. And again, a problem can be stated in several ways, explicit language is not encouraged here. We are not a forum of psychologists or psychiatrists, where anyone can bare-open itself and get solutions.

    This forum has witnessed thousands of people over last 10 years, many people came and left, many people stayed forever. Some came here, commented on every aspect of forum and then disappeared. Sometimes people should understand that forum is not the end. It is a tool. Your own faith, your own internal progress are real stuff.

    Any disagreement with management and operation of the forum should be dealt in appropriate way. Every one of us are here because we feel closer to Baba by this forum. The administration and management of the forum is there to maintain the needed discipline and decorum here. This helps each and every one. If your difference in opinion helps forum in some way, it will be always welcomed. Trust me. A word gains value when it comes with right intent and attitude.

    This forum is as good as its members. If there is a decline in the forum, it is because collective devotion of members have declined. If you see forum becoming better, it is because you are getting closer to Baba. Think about it. Let us leave the operation, management of the forum to those who are supposed to do it. Fault finding in forum should not be our aim, let us make use of the forum in gaining knowledge, fostering spiritual and meaningful relationships, clearing our spiritual doubts and helping each other in their spiritual journeys. Thanks for reading it all the way.
     
     

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    Re: Is my prayer gone be answered
    « Reply #19 on: July 28, 2012, 03:24:50 AM »
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    Shravananayanajam Vaa Maanasam Vaaparaadham,
    Vihitamavihitam Vaa Sarvametatkshamasva,
    Jaya Jaya Karunaabdhe Shriimahaadeva Shambho"

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    Re: Is my prayer gone be answered
    « Reply #20 on: August 10, 2012, 11:01:49 AM »
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  • Hi

    I joined this community to get mental piece. I was praying to Sai baba previously but I didn't get the result which I was expecting, so I completely stopped.I was thinking if God cannot help me what is the point of praying, but my situation became so worse so seeking help. Feel like dieing but not able to scared and even thinking of my mom. I am the only child and My MOM is the most important gift I have got in my life, she has always stood with me but I have always given her pain. Please help me Sai Baba. Please help me

    MY problem is I am a kerala girl and I am loving an Oriya Brahmin. We are in a relationship for 7 years and now his parents had seen a girl for him and asking him to marry. He has told about me to his parents but they are not accepting me because I am not a Brahmin, his dad got admitted in the hospital because of high BP as he was tensed when he came to know about me. Then we decided to stop our relationship but I am not able to forget him. Feeling so weak, so sad not able to understand what to do in life. I have only 1 life and I wish to live with him not able to accept that I lost him and he is no more in my life. Please help me, please pray for me. Is Cast a big deal? Why is that happening in India, cant we do something to stop this? Please Sai Baba, help me and Please hear my prayer. Please don't be angry with me, Please don't hate me. Please help to get me married to him. I have not done any big mistake to hurt people. Somehow trying to divert my mind. Today went to play badminton but got ligament tear on my knee..nothing is working out. Please help.

    Dhanya

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    Re: Is my prayer gone be answered
    « Reply #21 on: August 10, 2012, 11:41:38 AM »
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  • SaiRam Dhanya,

    Baba bless you soon and protect you in everyway. Just a suggestion! Why don't you go and meet his parents and convinve them. I feel sad for you since there is  no one to help you. Or you can even ask your mom to go and meet them. My sincere wishes for everything. Baba guides you in every sitaution.

    JaiSaiRam

    Hi

    I joined this community to get mental piece. I was praying to Sai baba previously but I didn't get the result which I was expecting, so I completely stopped.I was thinking if God cannot help me what is the point of praying, but my situation became so worse so seeking help. Feel like dieing but not able to scared and even thinking of my mom. I am the only child and My MOM is the most important gift I have got in my life, she has always stood with me but I have always given her pain. Please help me Sai Baba. Please help me

    MY problem is I am a kerala girl and I am loving an Oriya Brahmin. We are in a relationship for 7 years and now his parents had seen a girl for him and asking him to marry. He has told about me to his parents but they are not accepting me because I am not a Brahmin, his dad got admitted in the hospital because of high BP as he was tensed when he came to know about me. Then we decided to stop our relationship but I am not able to forget him. Feeling so weak, so sad not able to understand what to do in life. I have only 1 life and I wish to live with him not able to accept that I lost him and he is no more in my life. Please help me, please pray for me. Is Cast a big deal? Why is that happening in India, cant we do something to stop this? Please Sai Baba, help me and Please hear my prayer. Please don't be angry with me, Please don't hate me. Please help to get me married to him. I have not done any big mistake to hurt people. Somehow trying to divert my mind. Today went to play badminton but got ligament tear on my knee..nothing is working out. Please help.

    Dhanya
    A Person, who has controlled his mind, can achieve any success in his life. How far you are trying to control your mind?
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    Re: Is my prayer gone be answered
    « Reply #22 on: August 10, 2012, 11:49:19 AM »
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  • Dhanya
     I pray to baba too and ask for his help. But things keep getting worse and worse. Now Im very scared if I wil get what I want

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    Re: Is my prayer gone be answered
    « Reply #23 on: August 13, 2012, 11:56:22 AM »
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  • Thank you for the reply. I really appreciate this suggestion. Please pray for me.

    Thank You

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    Re: Is my prayer gone be answered
    « Reply #24 on: August 13, 2012, 02:36:26 PM »
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  • i fely very sory for ur problem dhanya.. as im also in luv since 4 yrs i can understand ur pain.. i gotta have fear dat i may face the same prob lyk urs in my future bcoz myself too iz intercaste love...
    ut i prayed to baba abt urself dont lose hope true love never dies.. baba help u soonnn...
    baba plz help her plz baba plzz

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    Re: Is my prayer gone be answered
    « Reply #25 on: August 13, 2012, 02:54:27 PM »
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  • Please pray for me that I get my love

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    Re: Is my prayer gone be answered
    « Reply #26 on: August 18, 2012, 01:17:06 AM »
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  • I pray to sai baba and other gods and goddess but can't find peace and happiness. Do you guys think there is no happiness in my life. Meri kismat phoot gayi hai.

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    Re: Is my prayer gone be answered
    « Reply #27 on: August 20, 2012, 10:02:51 AM »
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  • Hi All

    After a long time from past 2 days i am going to temple to ask God to give him and to get some mental peace but God didn't help me. Today he called me an told his dad is telling he will shoot himself and die if he marry me and he cried, so my guy told he has not seen his dad crying in his whole life and for him they are important, so we will stop talking as our marriage is not possible. He told me if I want at times we can chat it seems. I do not ant him for at times, if God is giving me he has to give me as my husband not for at times chatting, so i have decided not to talk to him in my life here after, deleted his contact from everything. I am not sure if I did a correct thing or not but please all of you pray for me to get strength to live with out him here after and concentrate on my career. Please pray for me that I should be strong enough and never contact him in my life. Please also pray that I should not go in depression and loose my job also. I am reading all of your problems and I will also pray for you all. Sai Ram.

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    « Reply #28 on: August 20, 2012, 11:46:48 AM »
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  • Bless you Dhanya. I know what u going through. I had crush on this girl for long time. And one time I forget her but she came in my life again, if she's not meant for me why I saw her again. I always try to divert my mind from her but I couldn't. I don't knw why baba testing me. What did I do so wrong.

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    Re: Is my prayer gone be answered
    « Reply #29 on: August 21, 2012, 01:01:13 AM »
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  • Don't worry, If she is meant for u definitely she will come in ur life, just leave everything to God. Baba  bless you.

     


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