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Main Section => Welcome to Sai Baba Forum => Topic started by: 3val4india on July 04, 2012, 12:35:07 AM
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Dear sai devotees
Am I really gone get what I want?
Because it's been long time and I can't get job. And also I can't get girl i want. I really like her. I been looking fir answer long time. No answer and no clue.I feel like in doing something bad and I'm bad person. Everyday I just live to live. I been suffering all my life
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Om Sai Ram 3val4india
Nobody is good or bad in this world ..this is our act which make us good or bad ...
If you are feeling that you are doing something bad... then change it right now..better late than never
And always remember ..
"Nothing is Impossible in this World "
Om Sai Ram
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I dont think I'm doing anything bad. I always ask god that if im doing something bad I don't do it. And give ne strength. Like when I have to go to interview I always think positive but when I got there I just get nervous.
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3val4India ji
Why do you ask to God ( if you are doing something wrong ) when you yourself are repling that you didn't do anything wrong ..and not doing
All i can say is this ..if any action is not getting good result ..then there must be something wrong in our action ..
Anyway i don't wanna be judgemental.. Sai is everywhere ..And he himself watch us closely... our each and every moment ...
He may show you right path
Om Sai Ram
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That's what I'm wondering if I'm getting sexual thoughts, something wrong I'm doing in reading chalisa, aarti, slok. I always ask for forgiveness.
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Om Sai Ram
<<<<That's what I'm wondering if I'm getting sexual thoughts, something wrong I'm doing in reading chalisa, aarti, slok. I always ask for forgiveness>>>>>>
I guess this is the second time when I am giving reply of your this question ..but this time I want to
make you understand by giving you a example from SST –Chapter 49 ..
"NanaSaheb Chandokar ( who was one of the dear devotee of Sai ) was sitting in the Masjid ( Dwarka mai )with
Mahlsapati , Shama and others..
A Mohammeden gentleman came with his family to see Baba..ladies was in veil
Nanasaheb , who was sitting there , wanted to go away on seeing veiled ladies , But babaji prevented him from
doing so..
The ladies came and took the darshan of baba..when one of the ladies removed her veil for for saluting baba’s feet …
Nana sahib who had a glimpse of her face ..was so much smitten with her beauty ..and he wished to see her face
again..
Soon baba knew Nana sahib’ s thought and restlessmind ..when the lady left , Baba spoke to Nana sahib … “Nana
why you are getting agitated in vain ? Let the sense do their work ..we should not meddle with their work. God had
created this beautiful world, and it is our duty to appreciate its beauty..the mind will get steady and clam slowly and
gradually . When the heart is pure , there is no difficulty, whatsoever. Why should one be afraid of anyone, if there
be no evil thought in us ? The Eye may do their work , why should you feel shy and tottering??”
The Conclusion of this story is …
In duration of day and night , there are many kind of thoughts which comes across in our mind , some may be good,
some may be bad or worst too..and we can’t stop them to penetrate into our mind ..but in some extent we can
control on them ..it is in our hand to which thought you wanna give space in your mind , and which is not ..
Our Mind is fickle by nature , it should not be allowed to get wild ..The sense may get restless , the body, however ,
should be held in check, and not allowed to be impatient.
Senses always run after objects of desire …..but we should not follow them and crave for them..
By slow and gradual practice , restlessness can be conquered.
We should not be swayed by senses, though they can not be completely controlled..but we should curb them , rightly
and properly according to the need of occasion.
So..all you need is just practice to conquer over your thoughts ..
May Sai Show you right path
Om Sai Ram
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Am I gone get this girl I like. I really like her. And u know u don't always get what u want. But I really want her.
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I have the understanding that the genuine intent of people to reply and help should not be misused by people. There is no sincerity behind the questions asked by the person. No one can pull any one out of ditch ; not even God, unless the person is willing and making efforts. Without efforts, actually without sincere efforts and real intent nothing is attained. And efforts yield results in time and one has to be patient.
While using public forum, it is important to observe some set of rules regarding the language used. Forum is visited by people of all ages, so observe some intelligence while you ask your questions.
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SaiRam Ashok,
Baba blessings Well said! I like the way you have put it! Thank you.
JaiSaiRam
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<<While using public forum, it is important to observe some set of rules regarding the language used. Forum is visited by people of all ages, so observe some intelligence while you ask your questions. >>
I see nothing Offensive here, if somebody is facing a genuine problem and asks for a solution, why there is pointer to somebody's intelligence??? Or intelligence is also a TM of some BB's like "BABA's Blessings".
Atleast some people's Posts are not being removed and no politics is being played behind the scenes, no name calling is being done, by some CUT PASTE SUPPOSED BABA Bhakts---- WITH INACTION FROM ALL SIDES
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That's all I'm asking anupam. Is help
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If someone has any issue with moderation, with working of this forum, contact Ravi and i am sure there is nothing being played here as someone said it. I am not going to delve much into what the person wrote here. From his reply it is evident that he is frustrated because of something and is looking at every opportunity to vent out that. I reiterate if someone want solutions to his concerns, use the right approach and that is to contact Ravi. Using unrelated threads to voice your opinion is definitely not the right way and not going to help you or forum and would not provide solutions to your problems.
And 3val4india, what help do you need here? Please state that clearly. And you never really replied to people's detailed replies which were meant to help/guide you. So, what kind of help are you seeking here? If you are not comfortable in english, you may use hindi to communicate.
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Pray for me. I'm just so stress of life that things are going bad. Not getting job. And girl I like
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Dear 3val4india,
Your Problem no one can solve except one - that is You ! No matter how many advices you get, Your mind won't allow to understand and accept that. You are longing for only a body made by mortal structures.
Don't think it is Love. It is only infatuation because Love is strongest and purest Feeling and only Medium that Connect Spirit to God !
If Possible still your mind. You are living as a slave of your mind, why don't live as Master of Your Mind !
Give Your Life a Purpose ! Set Priority in terms of Career ! Life itself will get changed !
Read Hanuman Chalisa Daily ! See into eyes of Hanuman Ji ! Chant Name of Sai whenever Possible !
Nothing is Impossible - But only if You Try ! At Least You Try Once ! Take First Step ! Think to Live just for Yourself or Your Family !
Remember - God too help those First, Who Try to help themselves !
May Sai Bless You !
om sri sai ram !
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< i am sure there is nothing being played here as someone said it. I am not going to delve much into what the person wrote here. From his reply it is evident that he is frustrated because of something and is looking at every opportunity to vent out that.>>
HOW does somebody with mere 14 posts and few weeks maybne IS "SO SURE", and you point to frustrations and then to somebody's sincerity of questions and even somebody's English and Hindi.
It seems that few people feel they are the Greatest REMOTE Judges ALSO, so I feel no need to answer to some "self important's" harangue,
If you clearly understood what I stated is that if somebody puts his genuine question some self imporatant people have no right to FORCE THEIR SELF IMPORTANT Views
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This is my frequently used id, i use it when i need to post as mag-editor, else i use my old id. And i am not few weeks old here. :)
I do not need to explain you even, but i am doing it because i can see that you are seething with anger, because of something and no matter who comes in your way, you are going to vent out your anger to him. Innocent, man, woman, child, new comer or old comer; you have lost your judgment completely here.
I am not going to come to argue with you because you are not going to see any point. Your anger has blinded you enough. I told you the way to get solutions to your problems, but you did not see it either.
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Om sai ram
Anupam ji first I’d like to say ,I am happy to see your post again in this forum
Secondly I also feel whatever Ashokji has said, is correct in each and every word ..
I guess you took him in wrong way
By Ashokji<<<I have the understanding that the genuine intent of people to reply and help should not be misused by
people. There is no sincerity behind the questions asked by the person. No one can pull any one out of ditch ; not even God, unless the person is willing and making efforts. Without efforts, actually without sincere efforts and real
intent nothing is attained. And efforts yield results in time and one has to be patient.>>>
It is strange, that you ignored all good intention behind this post ..and you pointed out only few words..
I agree with you that nothing wrong asking about genuine problem ..that’s why I replied to him…but as well as Ashok
ji also right ..genuine problem in some extent, you can ask ..but it should not be beyond the limit ..after all this is
spiritual forum ..and we should not forget this fact.
And Ashok ji only pointed out the way ..how he (3vel4india) was taking others ,who was replying him and trying to
help him in genuine way ..
And I must say “Thanks ” to Ashok ji that he could feel the same as I felt ..( Though I was expecting this kind of
replying from him )
I have been following his post since long and I never felt, he was ever serious about his post or his problem ..his post and his reply has been shown that ..
Anupam ji I remember of all your old conversation with this guy, where you replied to this person..at the last you
yourself got irritate after seeing his reply ….that was reflected in your last few posts ..which was for him
I still remember that you asked him to do 108 Hanuman Chalisha In a day .. and how he made many excuse and after
that he went disappeared for few weeks ..
Anupam ji it is been long that I also wanted to say same thing which Ashok ji said to you .. unfortunately ..I
could also feel your wrath towards moderators after that “Incident” .. it has been reflecting in your each post .. but
I couldn’t say to you bcz I was apprehensive that you might be take me otherwise ..like you did this time with
Ashokji
Anupan ji ..Who we are to judging you ..while we are unable to judge our self..
Anupanji I am very new and ignorant In front of You all Saibji, Ashokji and You Yourself ..So this is my humble
request , Pls forgive m ,If I crossed my limit during reply …
Om Sai Ram
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I have the understanding that the genuine intent of people to reply and help should not be misused by people. There is no sincerity behind the questions asked by the person. No one can pull any one out of ditch ; not even God, unless the person is willing and making efforts. Without efforts, actually without sincere efforts and real intent nothing is attained. And efforts yield results in time and one has to be patient.
While using public forum, it is important to observe some set of rules regarding the language used. Forum is visited by people of all ages, so observe some intelligence while you ask your questions.
If someone has any issue with moderation, with working of this forum, contact Ravi and i am sure there is nothing being played here as someone said it. I am not going to delve much into what the person wrote here. From his reply it is evident that he is frustrated because of something and is looking at every opportunity to vent out that. I reiterate if someone want solutions to his concerns, use the right approach and that is to contact Ravi. Using unrelated threads to voice your opinion is definitely not the right way and not going to help you or forum and would not provide solutions to your problems.
And 3val4india, what help do you need here? Please state that clearly. And you never really replied to people's detailed replies which were meant to help/guide you. So, what kind of help are you seeking here? If you are not comfortable in english, you may use hindi to communicate.
This is my frequently used id, i use it when i need to post as mag-editor, else i use my old id. And i am not few weeks old here. :)
I do not need to explain you even, but i am doing it because i can see that you are seething with anger, because of something and no matter who comes in your way, you are going to vent out your anger to him. Innocent, man, woman, child, new comer or old comer; you have lost your judgment completely here.
I am not going to come to argue with you because you are not going to see any point. Your anger has blinded you enough. I told you the way to get solutions to your problems, but you did not see it either.
KIND ATTENTION: ASHOK JI
OM SAI RAM!!!
“Peace be to all”
"I have the understanding that the genuine intent of people to reply and help
should not be misused by people. There is no sincerity behind the questions asked by the person"
"While using public forum, it is important to observe some set of rules regarding the language used.
Forum is visited by people of all ages, so observe some intelligence while you ask your questions".
I believe that humbleness and non judgment are two qualities that BABA would like all of us to
possess and act on.
Let us understand that it is the emotion hidden behind the words in the posts that finally reach BABA.
There instead of judging it in terms of language and intent, we need to be supportive and compassionate –
a response based in compassion and trust. This is BABA’s Divine Forum, a means to express ourselves,
to converse with BABA, to seek BABA's advice (through HIS devotees) and blessings, in devotion and with love.
If we remain rooted in goodness, in non judgmental mode, then this will take us closer to BABA.
"I do not need to explain you even, but i am doing it because i can see that you are
seething with anger,"
"you have lost your judgment completely here."
"I am not going to come to argue with you because you are not going to see any point. Your anger has
blinded you enough. I told you the way to get solutions to your problems, but you did not see it either".
And like many of us, when we point one finger in direction of the other, in blame, we often
forget that 4 fingers are pointing right back to us. Just as Kabir had sung “Bura jo Dekhan Mai Chala,
Bura na Milya Koi, Jo dil Khoja Aapne, Mujse bura na koi.”
"and i am sure there is nothing being played here as someone said it".
Very often, we try and make sense of a situation, just on the face value. Let us refrain from
immediate reactions but try and take time to understand the situation from various perspectives and then
respond.
So, in full faith and love for BABA, let us call it a full stop to this series of exchange.
May BABA guide us all to begin the day on a note of deeper understanding, stronger faith and higher levels
of love and compassion.
MAY BABA SHOWER HIS BLESSINGS ON ALL OF US!
OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM!!!
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My sincere thanks to all (Saialwayshere) who could see my point. For those who did not, I would just state my stand here once again. I have nothing for or against anybody.
The contrasts in the world provide the necessary friction as opportunity for everyone to grow and learn. So, it depends at which level judgment is applied. For peace to reign each and every one of us should adhere to certain set of principles. Forum is a collective entity. Every member is important in absolute sense as each and every one of us is part of God in absolute sense. But till we realise that we need to follow some basic set of principles.
Wisdom is to discern through appearances. A sincere seeker would appear different than a non-sincere seeker. If you read my post again you would understand what i meant. There are people who are sincere in replying, in consoling and helping those who are in distress. But mind it, you can help people in true sense only when they are willing. At certain point of time you would figure out their intent. And again, a problem can be stated in several ways, explicit language is not encouraged here. We are not a forum of psychologists or psychiatrists, where anyone can bare-open itself and get solutions.
This forum has witnessed thousands of people over last 10 years, many people came and left, many people stayed forever. Some came here, commented on every aspect of forum and then disappeared. Sometimes people should understand that forum is not the end. It is a tool. Your own faith, your own internal progress are real stuff.
Any disagreement with management and operation of the forum should be dealt in appropriate way. Every one of us are here because we feel closer to Baba by this forum. The administration and management of the forum is there to maintain the needed discipline and decorum here. This helps each and every one. If your difference in opinion helps forum in some way, it will be always welcomed. Trust me. A word gains value when it comes with right intent and attitude.
This forum is as good as its members. If there is a decline in the forum, it is because collective devotion of members have declined. If you see forum becoming better, it is because you are getting closer to Baba. Think about it. Let us leave the operation, management of the forum to those who are supposed to do it. Fault finding in forum should not be our aim, let us make use of the forum in gaining knowledge, fostering spiritual and meaningful relationships, clearing our spiritual doubts and helping each other in their spiritual journeys. Thanks for reading it all the way.
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"Karacharana Krn Itam Vaakkaayajam Karmajam Vaa,
Shravananayanajam Vaa Maanasam Vaaparaadham,
Vihitamavihitam Vaa Sarvametatkshamasva,
Jaya Jaya Karunaabdhe Shriimahaadeva Shambho"
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Hi
I joined this community to get mental piece. I was praying to Sai baba previously but I didn't get the result which I was expecting, so I completely stopped.I was thinking if God cannot help me what is the point of praying, but my situation became so worse so seeking help. Feel like dieing but not able to scared and even thinking of my mom. I am the only child and My MOM is the most important gift I have got in my life, she has always stood with me but I have always given her pain. Please help me Sai Baba. Please help me
MY problem is I am a kerala girl and I am loving an Oriya Brahmin. We are in a relationship for 7 years and now his parents had seen a girl for him and asking him to marry. He has told about me to his parents but they are not accepting me because I am not a Brahmin, his dad got admitted in the hospital because of high BP as he was tensed when he came to know about me. Then we decided to stop our relationship but I am not able to forget him. Feeling so weak, so sad not able to understand what to do in life. I have only 1 life and I wish to live with him not able to accept that I lost him and he is no more in my life. Please help me, please pray for me. Is Cast a big deal? Why is that happening in India, cant we do something to stop this? Please Sai Baba, help me and Please hear my prayer. Please don't be angry with me, Please don't hate me. Please help to get me married to him. I have not done any big mistake to hurt people. Somehow trying to divert my mind. Today went to play badminton but got ligament tear on my knee..nothing is working out. Please help.
Dhanya
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SaiRam Dhanya,
Baba bless you soon and protect you in everyway. Just a suggestion! Why don't you go and meet his parents and convinve them. I feel sad for you since there is no one to help you. Or you can even ask your mom to go and meet them. My sincere wishes for everything. Baba guides you in every sitaution.
JaiSaiRam
Hi
I joined this community to get mental piece. I was praying to Sai baba previously but I didn't get the result which I was expecting, so I completely stopped.I was thinking if God cannot help me what is the point of praying, but my situation became so worse so seeking help. Feel like dieing but not able to scared and even thinking of my mom. I am the only child and My MOM is the most important gift I have got in my life, she has always stood with me but I have always given her pain. Please help me Sai Baba. Please help me
MY problem is I am a kerala girl and I am loving an Oriya Brahmin. We are in a relationship for 7 years and now his parents had seen a girl for him and asking him to marry. He has told about me to his parents but they are not accepting me because I am not a Brahmin, his dad got admitted in the hospital because of high BP as he was tensed when he came to know about me. Then we decided to stop our relationship but I am not able to forget him. Feeling so weak, so sad not able to understand what to do in life. I have only 1 life and I wish to live with him not able to accept that I lost him and he is no more in my life. Please help me, please pray for me. Is Cast a big deal? Why is that happening in India, cant we do something to stop this? Please Sai Baba, help me and Please hear my prayer. Please don't be angry with me, Please don't hate me. Please help to get me married to him. I have not done any big mistake to hurt people. Somehow trying to divert my mind. Today went to play badminton but got ligament tear on my knee..nothing is working out. Please help.
Dhanya
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Dhanya
I pray to baba too and ask for his help. But things keep getting worse and worse. Now Im very scared if I wil get what I want
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Thank you for the reply. I really appreciate this suggestion. Please pray for me.
Thank You
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i fely very sory for ur problem dhanya.. as im also in luv since 4 yrs i can understand ur pain.. i gotta have fear dat i may face the same prob lyk urs in my future bcoz myself too iz intercaste love...
ut i prayed to baba abt urself dont lose hope true love never dies.. baba help u soonnn...
baba plz help her plz baba plzz
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Please pray for me that I get my love
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I pray to sai baba and other gods and goddess but can't find peace and happiness. Do you guys think there is no happiness in my life. Meri kismat phoot gayi hai.
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Hi All
After a long time from past 2 days i am going to temple to ask God to give him and to get some mental peace but God didn't help me. Today he called me an told his dad is telling he will shoot himself and die if he marry me and he cried, so my guy told he has not seen his dad crying in his whole life and for him they are important, so we will stop talking as our marriage is not possible. He told me if I want at times we can chat it seems. I do not ant him for at times, if God is giving me he has to give me as my husband not for at times chatting, so i have decided not to talk to him in my life here after, deleted his contact from everything. I am not sure if I did a correct thing or not but please all of you pray for me to get strength to live with out him here after and concentrate on my career. Please pray for me that I should be strong enough and never contact him in my life. Please also pray that I should not go in depression and loose my job also. I am reading all of your problems and I will also pray for you all. Sai Ram.
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Bless you Dhanya. I know what u going through. I had crush on this girl for long time. And one time I forget her but she came in my life again, if she's not meant for me why I saw her again. I always try to divert my mind from her but I couldn't. I don't knw why baba testing me. What did I do so wrong.
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Don't worry, If she is meant for u definitely she will come in ur life, just leave everything to God. Baba bless you.
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That's what's scare me. What if she's not meant for me. Baba can still give me her if she's not meant for me. Baba five everybody what they want. I will never be happy without her. I been waiting for her for 5 years
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That's what's scare me. What if she's not meant for me. Baba can still give me her if she's not meant for me. Baba five everybody what they want. I will never be happy without her. I been waiting for her for 5 years
OM SAI RAM!!!
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OM SAI RAM, SRI SAI RAM, JAI JAI SAI RAM !!!
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But god can make her mine and also make her good person and comes in my life
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@ Dhanya
My life is not getting any better. I just feel so guilty. I'm trying my best in everything. Is it too much to ask if I just ask for help
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Hi
I am not sure what to tell you as I am in very bad condition as he left me, its been 1 week that we haven't even talk or msg. I am fed up by crying but I am still praying to Baba to give him back. God alone can help us, so please pray to God.
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I pray for u tht u get ur love.
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Thank you so much for sharing this story. I always try to control every thoughts and in the end I find myself drained.
Though I have some questions.
If thoughts can't be controlled by us, then why do we need to conquer over them?
How we can curb our thoughts? repressing them means, they may get space in our head and do mess in our mind, Isn't this?
Om Sai Ram
<<<<That's what I'm wondering if I'm getting sexual thoughts, something wrong I'm doing in reading chalisa, aarti, slok. I always ask for forgiveness>>>>>>
I guess this is the second time when I am giving reply of your this question ..but this time I want to
make you understand by giving you a example from SST –Chapter 49 ..
"NanaSaheb Chandokar ( who was one of the dear devotee of Sai ) was sitting in the Masjid ( Dwarka mai )with
Mahlsapati , Shama and others..
A Mohammeden gentleman came with his family to see Baba..ladies was in veil
Nanasaheb , who was sitting there , wanted to go away on seeing veiled ladies , But babaji prevented him from
doing so..
The ladies came and took the darshan of baba..when one of the ladies removed her veil for for saluting baba’s feet …
Nana sahib who had a glimpse of her face ..was so much smitten with her beauty ..and he wished to see her face
again..
Soon baba knew Nana sahib’ s thought and restlessmind ..when the lady left , Baba spoke to Nana sahib … “Nana
why you are getting agitated in vain ? Let the sense do their work ..we should not meddle with their work. God had
created this beautiful world, and it is our duty to appreciate its beauty..the mind will get steady and clam slowly and
gradually . When the heart is pure , there is no difficulty, whatsoever. Why should one be afraid of anyone, if there
be no evil thought in us ? The Eye may do their work , why should you feel shy and tottering??”
The Conclusion of this story is …
In duration of day and night , there are many kind of thoughts which comes across in our mind , some may be good,
some may be bad or worst too..and we can’t stop them to penetrate into our mind ..but in some extent we can
control on them ..it is in our hand to which thought you wanna give space in your mind , and which is not ..
Our Mind is fickle by nature , it should not be allowed to get wild ..The sense may get restless , the body, however ,
should be held in check, and not allowed to be impatient.
Senses always run after objects of desire …..but we should not follow them and crave for them..
By slow and gradual practice , restlessness can be conquered.
We should not be swayed by senses, though they can not be completely controlled..but we should curb them , rightly
and properly according to the need of occasion.
So..all you need is just practice to conquer over your thoughts ..
May Sai Show you right path
Om Sai Ram
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Am I gone get this girl I like. I really like her. And u know u don't always get what u want. But I really want her.
Tell her what you are feeling. Go ahead!
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Hi
I am not sure what to tell you as I am in very bad condition as he left me, its been 1 week that we haven't even talk or msg. I am fed up by crying but I am still praying to Baba to give him back. God alone can help us, so please pray to God.
Dhanya,
Three years ago I did love a woman and she was loving me unconditionally. When we had to go separate ways she told me to construct life in a positive way. She did tell me clearly that relationship between us not possible for some reason and I will have to respect that.
You know Dhanya, I did try many things to get her back. I grieved for one year from the day she left me. But later I realized she was a lesson for me. She taught me many things. How to be kind, why we should be kind, think positive, have great intention and love life.
I also came to know that I dared to love a true woman. It was her blessing that she left me. I think she left me so I can change myself and go ahead and meet the woman I am meant to be. I do love one my female friend so much right now.
I also learned your partner is not prize to be won. They are also human being and you have support and have love for them. You can't own them. You can love them. I know what you have been wanting, you have been wanting for your soul mate.
See Dhanya, everyone has their own soul mate, but it takes time to reach there. Love relationships are made in heaven, therefore according to divine timing which is meant to be, you will meet your man.
I hope I have helped you to relieve your pain.
have a good day and Jai Shri Krishna.
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Hi
I am not really sure about it, but I know one thing I love him and wanted to marry him. Its been 7 years an my age is not in 20s to still wait for my soul mate. anyways its my bad luck that i lost him just because of cast difference. I have left everything to God, let him decide. I need one more help from you guys, please pray for me to recover soon from ligament tear that I got on my right knee while playing badminton. Doctors are telling that I need an operation and I am very scared of that, so please pray to Sai Baba to cure me fast from this without operation and please also pray God that my Mahi should come back.
Thanks for the reply, sorry if I said anything wrong as now I am mentally and physically very weak..
Thanks
Dhanya
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Dhanya I hope you get well soon and you get ur love.
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SaiRam,
Baba blessings. Don't worry. The surgery must be simple. You'll not even know while they do it. Baba Sai will take care.
It is good to know that you play badminton. It is a very good game. I like it very much but not a very good player. :)
JaiSaiRam
Hi
I am not really sure about it, but I know one thing I love him and wanted to marry him. Its been 7 years an my age is not in 20s to still wait for my soul mate. anyways its my bad luck that i lost him just because of cast difference. I have left everything to God, let him decide. I need one more help from you guys, please pray for me to recover soon from ligament tear that I got on my right knee while playing badminton. Doctors are telling that I need an operation and I am very scared of that, so please pray to Sai Baba to cure me fast from this without operation and please also pray God that my Mahi should come back.
Thanks for the reply, sorry if I said anything wrong as now I am mentally and physically very weak..
Thanks
Dhanya
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We suppose to have faith that we will get everything want. But the way things going it don't seems like it and plus I'm getting old. I just live to live
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Om Sai Ram Simple man ji
We need not to conquer over all kind of thoughts , if thoughts are positive and good, why we
need to control or conquer them ..it was meant only for those thoughts which make us disturb or
restless..
I agree with you, repressing is not a proper solution , and your question is, how we can curb our
thoughts? Then my question is , what kinda thoughts you are talking about ? and what kinda thoughts
you try to control?
Is your thought related to broken relation or It is related with some bad habit or addiction? (like
3vel4india mentioned above ) I am asking because both are totally different, so process of controlling
will also be different .
Since this is a vague topic ,Pls make clear your question than only i could dare reply.
Chetna
Thank you so much for sharing this story. I always try to control every thoughts and in the end I find myself drained.
Though I have some questions.
If thoughts can't be controlled by us, then why do we need to conquer over them?
How we can curb our thoughts? repressing them means, they may get space in our head and do mess in our mind, Isn't this?
Om Sai Ram
<<<<That's what I'm wondering if I'm getting sexual thoughts, something wrong I'm doing in reading chalisa, aarti, slok. I always ask for forgiveness>>>>>>
I guess this is the second time when I am giving reply of your this question ..but this time I want to
make you understand by giving you a example from SST –Chapter 49 ..
"NanaSaheb Chandokar ( who was one of the dear devotee of Sai ) was sitting in the Masjid ( Dwarka mai )with
Mahlsapati , Shama and others..
A Mohammeden gentleman came with his family to see Baba..ladies was in veil
Nanasaheb , who was sitting there , wanted to go away on seeing veiled ladies , But babaji prevented him from
doing so..
The ladies came and took the darshan of baba..when one of the ladies removed her veil for for saluting baba’s feet …
Nana sahib who had a glimpse of her face ..was so much smitten with her beauty ..and he wished to see her face
again..
Soon baba knew Nana sahib’ s thought and restlessmind ..when the lady left , Baba spoke to Nana sahib … “Nana
why you are getting agitated in vain ? Let the sense do their work ..we should not meddle with their work. God had
created this beautiful world, and it is our duty to appreciate its beauty..the mind will get steady and clam slowly and
gradually . When the heart is pure , there is no difficulty, whatsoever. Why should one be afraid of anyone, if there
be no evil thought in us ? The Eye may do their work , why should you feel shy and tottering??”
The Conclusion of this story is …
In duration of day and night , there are many kind of thoughts which comes across in our mind , some may be good,
some may be bad or worst too..and we can’t stop them to penetrate into our mind ..but in some extent we can
control on them ..it is in our hand to which thought you wanna give space in your mind , and which is not ..
Our Mind is fickle by nature , it should not be allowed to get wild ..The sense may get restless , the body, however ,
should be held in check, and not allowed to be impatient.
Senses always run after objects of desire …..but we should not follow them and crave for them..
By slow and gradual practice , restlessness can be conquered.
We should not be swayed by senses, though they can not be completely controlled..but we should curb them , rightly
and properly according to the need of occasion.
So..all you need is just practice to conquer over your thoughts ..
May Sai Show you right path
Om Sai Ram
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Thoughts like that girl keeps coming in my mind. Thoughts abt my future.
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Thoughts like that girl keeps coming in my mind. Thoughts abt my future.
You need to focus on present. That's all what you need the most. If you thinking on future you may become insecure and may not find anything there.
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Dhanya, I am sorry for responding so late. I have been suffering some physical issues. So I was random and was not able to take care of this forum.
I will keep you in my prayers and how is your health now? How did your surgery go?
Hi
I am not really sure about it, but I know one thing I love him and wanted to marry him. Its been 7 years an my age is not in 20s to still wait for my soul mate. anyways its my bad luck that i lost him just because of cast difference. I have left everything to God, let him decide. I need one more help from you guys, please pray for me to recover soon from ligament tear that I got on my right knee while playing badminton. Doctors are telling that I need an operation and I am very scared of that, so please pray to Sai Baba to cure me fast from this without operation and please also pray God that my Mahi should come back.
Thanks for the reply, sorry if I said anything wrong as now I am mentally and physically very weak..
Thanks
Dhanya
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Hi Chetna
Yes, I was talking about having negative thoughts. About my career, physical/mental health, some other fearful thoughts.
I have been able to dictate them and I often end up responding to negative thoughts.
I feel hard to let go them.
I will think of your post again and will post a clear question. I have forgotten the question. I am sorry.
Regards,
Simple Man
Om Sai Ram Simple man ji
We need not to conquer over all kind of thoughts , if thoughts are positive and good, why we
need to control or conquer them ..it was meant only for those thoughts which make us disturb or
restless..
I agree with you, repressing is not a proper solution , and your question is, how we can curb our
thoughts? Then my question is , what kinda thoughts you are talking about ? and what kinda thoughts
you try to control?
Is your thought related to broken relation or It is related with some bad habit or addiction? (like
3vel4india mentioned above ) I am asking because both are totally different, so process of controlling
will also be different .
Since this is a vague topic ,Pls make clear your question than only i could dare reply.
Chetna