Jai Sai Ram BK,
I guess you belong to some middle class Punjabi Indian family. Because people from poor families or very rich these questions have lost meanings. People also from drama/film industry do not face such issues. But for others it is life or death question.
What do you understand by marriage ? Just living with some guy after performing certain rituals or getting marriage registered with court. May happen if you have no family. But if you have family, what about responsibility ? How your parents would face the society ? If You have younger sister, How would marriage of her happen ?
For you Future is Uncertain, not for Baba ! Will it be easy for you to adjust with their traditions and family ? I have worked in BPO Section of a big company and seen so many such relations developing there. End of many was Painful. Usually this happened in the families where Parents do not give time to their children and when they grow young, find someone with whom can share their loneliness and gradually caught in the trap of emotional attachment.
This is your life, so you alone can take decision. But remember your decision won’t affect just your life but also your entire family. As Ravi Ji advised talk to your parents if not directly with the help of someone, If that guy is highly educated, a good family background, Your parents can allow this relationship otherwise No parents wants bad of their children.
Meanwhile you can read Sri Sai Satcharitra, Sukhmani Sahib or Salok Mahala – 9. You will understand meaning and Value of Human Life. Also attain peace of mind.
All The Best !
om sri sai ram !