Need the right answer Sai bandhus!!!!

[saitvenkatesh]

hi all,

I loved a girl for 5 years but she refused. I went to Baba to make it a success and get her married to me.

But I heard that the girl got married 3 years back itself. I was totally out of control and couldnt control my tears and heart ache.

One thought suddenly struck my mind which I came across
when I read Satcharita that Baba answered some of His devotees in chits that is in the form of yes or no while taking
decisions.

I had put two chits one as "that girl was a girl with good conduct" and the other one was "she was a girl
or bad conduct". I prayed to Baba after hearing this news of that girl got married.

Baba answered "she was a girl
or bad conduct" for 4 times continuously.

Then once again, I put the chits on another day in which I had put "she was a
girl with good conduct before and after marriage" and the other one as "she was a
girl with bad conduct before and after marriage". I prayed to Baba as please tell the truth.

He gave
1. "she was a girl with bad conduct before and after marriage"
2. "she was a girl with good conduct before and after marriage"
3. "she was a girl with bad conduct before and after marriage"

Why did He give good opinion about the girl during the second time?

Nobody had told bad about that girl but why did Baba tell me like this in the chits.

I once remember asking her friend about her. She told "this love will not succeed".

Two more guys told that they had seen her with a guy in bike in one place. Who is that guy? Is he her brother or her college mates?

Finally, a big one, I went to a Sai devotee who foretells future due to the grace of Sai. He too told, "this love will not succeed".

Did He actually save me from that girl with bad conduct or He showed such results so that I live a new life.

Which one is true?

Devotees please let me know.

I am ready to marry another girl but I wanted to know the truth because my belief and faith should not be underestimated
by Baba.

Sairam,
T.Venkatesh

T.Venkatesh

[Shammi]

Sairam
Only baba knows about the conduct of each and every child of his as he is antaryami .. and our true inner  self ..

Nothing  is hidden from him  and he knows all

Just baba knows the truth .. and for the  chits you have put - You wrote it as "bad conduct .. "  Why so ..?
Can we judge and speak like this of other s. ?

Baba never asked us to do that in his teachings
Satcharithra is a real gem  - dear brother  please pick up baba s teachings from there ...

Baba has asked us  not to  judge people ( bad or good ) .. he knows who is what  and very well knows to care
for his children -

So  my dear brother why  judge someone or take  for  a  face value ..  

Wont be so  nice if you being a sai devotee  could pray to baba for her welfare and her happiness too.

Love knows no suspicion
"Pure love and suspicion cannot dwell together: at the door where the latter enters, the former makes its exit."

So think for yourself - Did you  love for  true  ..? Then how did suspicion enter


Bow to Sri Sai - Raksha Karo Deva !!!

[saitvenkatesh]

sorry Shammi,

I cannot take your words. I am not elevated to such an extent.

It is my effort. Its my attitude to think that girl as my wife. Knowing this Baba should not have given me this problem.

I think its all one-sidedly favouring that girl.

Baba very well knows about my hard work and the kind of efforts that I had put in was mainly to marry that girl. Everyone told that girl would have got married. I had firm faith in Baba.

Why should I pray for her welfare now? Will she pray for me?

The whole world is a big cheating playground and Baba did the final finish.

The result shows that Baba had deceived me which clearly means that He did not keep up the word "He never puts His devotees down."

T.Venkatesh

[keerthisai]

OM SAIRAM

Venkateshji

Baba always decides on the best for his children, he always does not give what we want. Baba Sai has choosen the right decision for you so why worry whether the girl's conduct is good or bad. He has decided to give you the best life partner. so just cling on to his feet and look forward to what he is offering you.

when you are confused the chits are the best answer which you get. Be bold enough to decide on it only on the first time be it favourable or not. This is our personal experience. don't go in for a best of three or two. First and only once is the answer. just leave it at that. with our personal experience, we feel things are best at BABA's answer first.

Venkateshji so pls cheer up and just cling on to Baba's holy feet and things will happen as per baba's will with the best choice for each of his children.

[Shammi]

Extremely sorry for you  "venkatesh" -  that  you have  not understood My Saibaba
Dear Brother - i just pray that he blesses you  and for sure he will -  as for him we are all one

Just a simple question to you -------- Should  baba give us all that we ask for ..? not necessarily
Should he ..............? Its up to  decide whether he should give it or not

Just ask for his grace in plenty and the rest all will follow .. Without his grace nothing comes to us


Bow your head before him in reverence ;  with your hands  press his lotus feet gently ; lets  your eyes gaze into his face  intently , and the nose  inhale  the  fragrance of the water thats washes  his feet .

Here logic,reiteration to clarify, hearsay , statements  or assertions  and discussion will not help. Difficulties are  removed only by  gods grace. Debates and  Disputes are all in vain

Simple unquestioning faith alone succeeds . So pray baba that he blesses you ..
And so do we pray for you ..




Bow to Sri Sai - Raksha Karo Deva !!!

[rakshu23]

Hi,

Please dont worry about the past.Like you there are so many people who are disappointed in love.We have no rights to decide about anybodys character.Baba knows everybody,when that girl is married there is no point in thinking whether she was good are bad.You have to carry on with your life.Think practically she is happy with her life,if you waste time thinknig about her is there any meaning.Baba is there to bless you with a new girl.Bas love more pure and everlasting that humanbeings.

Om sai Ram

[SS91]

OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI

BLESS ALL YOUR DEVOTEES WHO COME IN NEED.

JAISAIRAM.

subhasrini
OM SAI SRI SAI JAYA JAYA SAI!!!
Let us pray at the feet of Sai Baba who is the incarnation of all gods and protector of all, to show mercy on us, and increase our devotion towards him.

[rpuril]

Jai Sai Raam,

Someone said everything happens for good, you will not feel it right now but later point of time when time passes by you will feel about your past that whatever you lost even that was good for you. I had the same experience and I was shattered but now when I have loving and caring wife and two kids and look back I think yes this is right. Just think that you got out of it at right time. Sorry if I am hurting anyone's feelings. Sai Raam.

Rakesh