If you can't control anything, Let baba do. Be untouched. Let thoughts flash in mind but like a movie, don't be part of them. Don't be one. Be apart from your own mind. Some actions and thoughts being part of sub conscious mind can not be controlled easily, but gradually can be replaced with other good thougths and conducting good action. Need only determination and great discipline.
May Baba Bless You!
om sri sai ram!