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Offline GaneshHariharan

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A FEW GOOD ONES ....
« on: May 01, 2009, 04:08:27 AM »
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  • The Past may not be your fault, but the Future is your responsibility alone.  -Gene Cruz

    Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood. -Marie Curie

    Bad is never good until worse happens. -Danish Proverb

    Dream as if you'll live forever. Live as if you'll die today. -James Dean

    Difficulty attracts the man of character because it is in embracing it that he realizes himself. -Charles de Gaulle

    It's the friends you can call up at 4 a.m. that matter. -Marlene Dietrich

    Everything comes if a man will only wait. -Benjamin Disraeli

    If you focus on results, you will never change. If you focus on change, you will get results. -Jack Dixon

    OM SAINATHAYA NAMAHA

    Offline bhavna

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    Re: A FEW GOOD ONES ....
    « Reply #1 on: May 01, 2009, 08:04:30 AM »
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  • GANESHJI I NEED UR HELP
    i am beginning to feel very depressed i am devided on 2 things to wait or not to wait for this guy
    wen we both first broke up in dec 2007 i took to sais worship thouhh i had been to shirdi a lot many times before even wid dis guy in august 2007.it was after dis breakup  dat i actually read abt sais leelas read sai sat charita for the first tym. sai gave me sakshat darshan in front of my hse as a beggar. iprayed to him dat if he sees us as a couple married he shud get him bak and call both of us to shirdi. this  guy did come bak though he said without commitment of marriage  and sai called both of us to shirdi. after i abt amonth of comin bak from shirdi dre were talks abt us gettin married at his hse as told to me by his sis in law . he never mentined anythin himself.
    its noe been an year after dat but situtaion has worsened he jus cant commit to marry me and does not even give me a reason.he gets upset wen i talk abt me gettin married elsewre but says he wants me to settle down. i speculate its his family dat have refused me and dats y he doesnt wanna commit i dont know the real reason it jus my speculation. now wat shud i do..he wants to do everything for me from caring for me to financially supportin me but doesnt wanna commit
    do u think dat dese hints i got from sai wre mere co incidences...i shud be more practical abt the whole thing? i c dem like dat cause dats wat i want?
    i am very confused and in all dis i end up jus fitin wid dis guy and sunaoing him.
    initially he did commit before we broke up in 2007 december, sayin dat we will end up together da moment his business prob sorts out...but den within a matter of a few hrs abt 6-7 he decided dat he cant commit to me and dats how i came in sais orbit .
    plz help me ganesh ji i am very confused.

    Offline GaneshHariharan

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    Re: A FEW GOOD ONES ....
    « Reply #2 on: May 01, 2009, 11:05:35 AM »
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  • dear bhavna, baba giving you darshan may not be because of your association with this guy. he must have done so bcos he loves you. it is very diifficult to interpret baba's leela's sometimes. although sometimes it is very very clear. anyway i do not think that in this case you should take baba's gesture as a message to marry thus guy. in your case i can only give you advise from a practicality point of view. as i see it , if this guy is in love with you atleast as much as you are in love with him. he must have made up his mind by now. whether he is not able to decide or his family , we can speculate on that till the cows come home but it will not help you. my suggestion is the following , sit down with him. tell him , lets go apart for 1 month. you think about whether you want to settle down with me , in the meantime i will also think about our relationship. but tell him after this one month if both of us decide to come together again , then you must give me a concrete time frame within which you will marry me. otherwise lets end this playing around. dear bhavna, unfortunately there are a lot of men out there who just play around with peoples feelings and it doesnt mean anything to them. do this , and it is only
    one month. you will get your answer from sai within this period.  i pray that you have your love but not at all costs. love is a give and take relationship.
    to talk is very easy , i love you , i will die for you etc but it is deeds that matter . so if he not reciprocating your love in the way that he should , you dont deserve him. this is not the end of your life dear so be cool and may sai give you what you are worth , which is all good things in life. god bless. OM SHRI SAINATHAYA NAMAHA.

    Offline adwaita

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    Re: A FEW GOOD ONES ....
    « Reply #3 on: May 02, 2009, 01:29:25 AM »
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  • Well said Ganesh ji. All your posts are simply superb. Baba bless all. om sai ram.

    Offline Well-wisher

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    Re: A FEW GOOD ONES ....
    « Reply #4 on: May 02, 2009, 09:15:33 AM »
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  • Bhavna, I feel Ganeshji is right. And I also know you have the strength to do this. It wont harm anyone. If he really loves you, this one month will make him value you and understand how badly he needs you and this relationship. And for all you know, this one month may teach him to stand up for this relationship and find solutions too.

    If not my friend, you've already realized what you wanna do in life... :-)

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    Re: A FEW GOOD ONES ....
    « Reply #5 on: May 03, 2009, 11:15:27 AM »
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  • Adding some...........


    =>  There are two primary choices in life to accept conditions as they exist, or accept the responsibility for changing them. -Dr. Denis Waitley

    =>  You cannot change your future... but, u can change ur habits... And sure ur habits will change ur future. -Bernard Shaw

    =>  Destiny is no matter of chance. It is a matter of choice: It is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved. -William Jennings Bryan

    =>  You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You must do the thing which you think you cannot do. - Eleanor Roosevelt

    =>  Success is the good fortune that comes from aspiration, desperation, perspiration and inspiration. -Evan Esar

    =>  You never fail until you stop trying. -Florence Griffith Joyner

    =>  Have the courage to say no. Have the courage to face the truth. Do the right thing because it is right. These are the magic keys to living your life with integrity. -W. Clement Stone

    =>  To the question of your life you are the answer, and to the problems of your life you are the solution. -Joe Cordare

    =>  The difference between a successful person and others is not a lack of strength, not a lack of knowledge, but rather in a lack of will. -Vincent J. Lombardi

    =>  When we accept tough jobs as a challenge and wade into them with joy and enthusiasm, miracles can happen. -Arland Gilbert

    =>  Life is not easy for any of us. But what of that? We must have perseverance and above all confidence in ourselves. We must believe that we are gifted for something and that this thing must be attained.--Marie Curie

    =>  When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one that has opened for us. -Alexander Graham Bell

    =>  Each morning when I open my eyes I say to myself: I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be. Yesterday is dead, tomorrow hasn't arrived yet. I have just one day, today, and I'm going to be happy in it. -Groucho Marx

    =>  The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them. -Thomas Merton

    =>  Faith is to believe in what you do not yet see, the reward for faith is to see what you believe. -Detroit Red Wings

    =>  A man can get discouraged many times but he is not a failure until he begins to blame somebody else and stops trying. -John Burroughs

    =>  Patience and preseverance have a magical effect before which difficulties disappear and obstacles vanish. -John Quincy Adams

    =>  Don't focus on the days when you failed. Focus on all of the days you won. Keep a chart, monitor your successes, and don't give up! -Robert Butterworthn

    =>  In order to succeed you must fail, so that you know what not to do the next time. -Anthony J. D'Angelo

    =>  If you're not failing every now and again, it's a sign you're not doing anything very
    innovative. -Woody Allen

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    Offline GaneshHariharan

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    Re: A FEW GOOD ONES ....
    « Reply #6 on: May 03, 2009, 11:18:32 AM »
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  • GOOD ONE , TANU JI. KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK. OM SHRI SAINATHAYA NAMAHA.

    Offline preeti_raghunath

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    Re: A FEW GOOD ONES ....
    « Reply #7 on: May 03, 2009, 10:14:18 PM »
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  • OM SAI RAM
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    Offline Well-wisher

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    Re: A FEW GOOD ONES ....
    « Reply #8 on: May 03, 2009, 11:53:24 PM »
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  • Taju ji... I'm printing these and putting them up at my office desk! Thank u so much!

    Offline tanu_12

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    Re: A FEW GOOD ONES ....
    « Reply #9 on: May 04, 2009, 01:16:02 AM »
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  • pls Ganeshji don't call me tanuji, u r like my big brother..
    and dear well-wisher i think i m like ur friend so u also don't call me tanuji..  :-)
    thanks for appreciations, later i will add more for us ok :-)
    Man Ke Gehre Andhiyare Me "Sai" Naam Diye Jaisa

    Give Light, and the darkness will disappear of itself...

    Offline GaneshHariharan

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    Re: A FEW GOOD ONES ....
    « Reply #10 on: May 04, 2009, 05:05:04 AM »
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  • DEAR TANU, THANK YOU. I FEEL HONOURED. GOD BLESS YOU. OM SHRI SAINATHAYA NAMAHA.

    Offline Well-wisher

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    Re: A FEW GOOD ONES ....
    « Reply #11 on: May 04, 2009, 07:20:12 AM »
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  • Tanu, thats cute! I'll wait for your posts

     


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