OM SAI RAM
Dear Shiv,
After reading your posts, I still dont know what to say. However, this is what I like to suggest as remedy:
1) Continue with all the praying you all do. Only that it should be loud, not in mind. When you start, be happy and cheerful. That you are doing it with your family.
2) Keep one CD continously playing all day long either Gayatri Mantra or Sai Mantra.
3) Ask your wife to do written Sai Naam Jaap in a time frame. Like completing a 100 page book in 10 days, etc.
ON the 1st page of the book, write, "Dear Baba, I surrender my Mind, Ego to you as it is. Kill all the negatives in them and lead me to the right path."
On completion offer sweets and book to any near by Baba's temple.
3) Get some Udi and keep it under your wife's and daughter's pillow, every night when they sleep.
4) Apply a bit of Udi mixed with hair oil on their head in the morning. (if you dont get the original Udi, the ash from aarbatti offered to Baba, will also do)
5) Get Vaastu done of your house immediately. There is a gentleman in Delhi, whose progam is aired every Sunday on some channel, I cant recall either. But will get it for you. Maybe it's just Vaastu Dosh. Hoping for the better.
6) If possible, go on a vacation for couple of months, without telling any one at all. Dont be in touch with anyone you know. Go to pilgrmimage, if you can.
Whichever remedy you choose, make sure you follow it with ABSOLUT Faith in the Diety. Things will turn for the better, very soon.
Baba, be with them and protect them, they need your help right away.
Till then...Keep Praying!!!