Dear, Magic is only an illusion. What state you are explaining it to control over mind, it is different state. In more than 90% it is fear alone and not any magic which cause any harm.
This is also a sort of science. People gets hurt not on account of power of someone else but on account of their own weaknesses. In many cases where no loyalty exist, Guilty or Wife assumes she is not fortunate for husband or vice versa such incidents take place.
Just to share one real story, Some years back, One of my friend met me, He was sad, When I asked what was issue, He explained that he loved some girl, who belonged to very poor family so his family was not accepting this relation, as they had found one girl from rich family who were supposed to give good amount as dowry. His parents, as he over-heard their conversation gave his clothes to some big Jadoo tona type Guy, so that he started hating that girl. He was sad, but there was confidence on his face that what so ever happen, I won’t leave that girl. In spite of all efforts of his family, He married that girl, Now it has been many years, and they are living happy married life.
Just to explain you must be knowing about Hackers who hack system of others to capture all relevant information and use for their benefits. But if system is password protected, equipped with high quality anti-virus software, firewall and anti-spyware solution. Regular Scanning of systems and multi-level back up, Control over external webmails It is just impossible for any hackers to get into such system ………………. same where in our life there is light of name of Lord, it is no way to get enter for any evil force. One who live with fear (respect) of Lord and perform karmas with the thought that Lord is watching his all acts, never fall victim of such forces.
We can divide such forces in three parts simple magic (Usually tricks like making things appear from air, cutting the person into pieces etc. etc. You can watch decoding the magic code program on AXN to know all tricks behind such magic) Second, Is hypnotism (Where conscious mind is controlled, But this technique is not effective for people who have very strong belief system or sub-conscious mind e.g. a very honest officer cannot be made to accept bribe) Third is to control one’s entire mind, but again if one is true devotee of Lord or have very clear and strong life value system, then holy name of Lord always protects him from evil and such a power of name, any evil power instead of harming him benefits him in some way.
This is all as per my little knowledge. One more thing I have experienced in my own life, Unbalanced energy level also play an important role in such events, like not getting Job or being unemployed for long time, Not good family life, Kids not good in education etc. Here one should check if there is junk in house, dead flowers, plants, broken photos of any form of God, faulted electrical equipments, water leakages, no proper light, broken mirrors, stopped watches, wash room and kitchen together ……………. as small change in environment can result in big positive changes in life.
Hope, It will give you some clarity. Still you feel there is some other reason, consult some wise person. If in Delhi, I heard that priest of Bharon temple is very knowledgeable. Also in Delhi two places are extremely powerful with high degree of divine energy, Jhandewalan Temple and Gurudwara Sis Ganj which can convert negative energy into positive one! For other areas You have to find. Other way is powerful chanting. This is like Buddhist Monks use, Simple chanting to sound meditation.
May Baba Bless You and All!
om sri sai ram!