Om sai ram Moumita
After reading your post ,I deduced, the way you are thinking, whether you did mistake allow him back in
your life , is wrong, He might be thinking in the same way , because of your behaviour .
Just think , what life you faced ,when he left you ?
Are you ready to going through the same phase again ? If you are not , then forget about this option to make distance few more days , it will not help you ,it may be increase your problem.
I am sorry but, I don’t agree with NeedDilenJi’s words that’s << Do not treat him with kindness >>
My opinion is just opposite , Men always need love ,affection and care for them, no matter what are
their ages. And your husband now needs you and your love more than before .
Moumita what you think, you have only gone through this pain?? He has not?
He must have faced the same pain , but males are little different from we females , they don’t express
their emotions easily , like we do.
If he didn’t say that he loves you till yet ,doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love you , And why do you
wanna listen this in word ? Can’t you feel him and his love ?
Think !! why he would be come back to you, if he didn’t love you .
You are expecting apologies ,but Men doesn’t accept their mistakes so easily , though in the inner
heart they feel guilt about their mistakes , but still they can’t accept in words, just because of male ego
, it becomes very big thing for them , so pls don’t expect apologies from him .
Moumita “It is very easy to break the relation but later it leads life hard …and hard to maintain the
same relation but later it leads life easy”
So, bury your all past things and start your new life with new chapter , If he is trying, than you should
also try to forget his past .Give him some time to reset him and help him in that way, tell him, how
much he is important in your life, make him realize that his decision was right, to coming back to you,
by showing your love and care to him .
Rest leave all things upon Sai, he will take care of your relation.
All the best for your happy marriage life
Om sai ram
Dear Friends,
My life has taken another turn. My husband came back a few days back. In the meanwhile i had not kept any contact with him. He tried to contact me a few times, but i did not take his calls or meet him. A few days back, it was a Tuesday, he came back home. He said he behaved stupidly and said he felt very lonely and that he wants to come back home. At that moment i became very weak. i love him so much, he's my husband. i allowed him to come back home. That very day he shifted back, and brought all his belongings in the next few days. About 15 days have passed, my husband behaves nicely and gently with me, but not for once has he said that he loves me. He is still hell-bent on going to those salsa parties. I also saw his call records, and found that he called one his ex-girlfriends. my heart broke , and i clearly asked him about it. He said, he called her only to say that he does not want to keep in touch with her any more. I donot know if he is telling the truth. Later i saw that he has deleted those girls name from his phone and facebook friend list. He has not apologized for his behavior neither has he said even once that he loves me. I'm in a huge dilemma. Did i do a mistake by allowing him back in my life? I'm unable to understand why he came back. Should i give it some more time? How much time will be enough? How should i behave, should i be the loving , caring wife that i always was, or should i distant myself from him for a few days? i do not want to go through those painful experiences again in my life, that'll totally shatter me. What should i do, so that my marriage becomes wonderful again..
please advise me, help me and pray for us!!
Om Sai Ram!!
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