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Re: Conversation with Baba....my true friend
« Reply #285 on: October 28, 2010, 10:30:23 PM »
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  • om sai sharanam...
    baba...today is my 9th wedding anniv. It feels like ages already. Baba...i still get worked up and still get upset. When will i stop it?? Life mein chilled rehne ka hai....aur apna plan set rakhne ka hai...
    poori duniya yehi kehti hai ki tum kuchh nahi kar sakte ho....tum karne layak nahi ho...yeh to bahut mushkil hai...they'll have a million reasons to prove why you cant do a thing. and u need just determination to prove them wrong....
    U prove them wrong and u yourself would feel gud about you.
    A few posts ago, i was asking myself what motivates me. i kept looking for answers outside. but now i know...my competition is with myself. when i outdo myself, i am obviously breaking some misconceptions of other people.....and thats how i want to be.....
    please be with me in this journey.
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    Re: Conversation with Baba....my true friend
    « Reply #286 on: October 30, 2010, 12:01:37 AM »
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  • Om Shri Sainathaya Namah
    Shri Sai Baba bless all with the best in life.

    May every devotee of Shri Sai enjoy Happy, Healthy, Wealthy, Loving Peaceful, and Successful Long Life.

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    Re: Conversation with Baba....my true friend
    « Reply #287 on: October 31, 2010, 10:35:19 PM »
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  • dear baba...gud morning. Life mein vision and mission dono hona chahiye i think. What do u say?

    Instead of wasting too much time, i'll get to the point:-

    Background:
    Always a topper. Masters degree in IT from reputed college.PMP certified. Career has been reasonably good. Although havent made lot of money, but still good enough to live the way i want. Parents always encouraged focus on career and toiled hard to make me what i am today. I am forever indebted to them.

    Where i am currently:
    Global head S/w development in an IT firm. Pursuing SSBB certification (which has been lingering on). Stuck in a 12 hour job routine with little time to spend for my family esp my 4 year old son. I feel guilty about that. Any switch to a similar profile would entail same work related issues. Switching to a diff profile not very easy. Quitting not an option since i need the money to support my father and my family. Plus i do not want to depend on anyone for my financial needs. Also, my parents have spent their sweat and blood for my education. I cant just throw it all away.

    What do i want:
    Enough flexibility in my life to work out the time and money for myself. I need to get enough money while spending quality time with my family.  ;D I need to feel good about what i am doing. I want to enjoy and do my own thing.

    How do i get what i want:
    The regular management hierarchy will not help me. I need to look outside the familiar path and do my own thing. even if i change jobs that offer me some more flexibility, it'll not be any different. There would be other kinds of issues. So that's not going to help. I feel its time for retraining myself and aquiring new skills and learn new trade. I should be investing in myself - physically and mentally.

    Vision:
    I should be able to be on my own by 2012 begining and latest by 2012 end. I have to be physically and mentally fit and strong to ensure all needs are taken care of. I should have enough finances and means to generate money further without trudging up the 9 to 5 work path.

    Mission:
    To achieve my target, i have to do the following:
    1. Complete my SSBB by dec 2010. NO CARRY FORWARD TO 2011.
    2. Achieve general fitness level by 31 Dec 2010.
    3. Start reading up of Finances by 1 Jan 2011 and complete training by Dec 2011.
    4. Parallely start something for writing proficiency. Evaluate the courses in Jan 2011.
    5. Build decent portfolio by Dec 2011.
    6. Focus on day to day office activities and dont worry too much about work situation or aquiring skills in this field. You are not going to pursue it anyways.

    So as of now - I need to just focus on day to day office work and completing SSBB by dec 2010. And focus on my health. Thats the bottom line.

    Baba - if at all i ever get confused, direct me to this page.



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    Re: Conversation with Baba....my true friend
    « Reply #288 on: November 01, 2010, 12:18:54 AM »
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  • Dear Vidyarp,

    Your Vision and Mission statement is really inspiring. People who know what they want from life, it’s hard for them to fail. After a stage even destiny surrenders before such souls. But only one thing to say, “Don’t do any thing to show or prove to world, How capable you are.” World won’t be interested. Do for yourself, to live using all skills you possess being on the path of advancement. Know and use all potential. God really pleased when He observes the one whom He sent in the world with one or two skills have learnt two or four more skills at his own.

    and when you start doing to please you as well God, world will too attracted for your achievements. Then you too will be having eternal peace and everlasting happiness!

    With all great wishes………Life is not a computer program. All areas of life demand attention and time. Only a happy mind can achieve anything in life.

    If you have an interest of reading, there is a beautiful book “How to simplify your life” by Tiki Kustenmacher. I have read hundreds of books on Life and Time management by many great Management Gurus. This book I can say summary of all great lessons.

    May Sai Bless You and all of Us!

    om sri sai ram!
    om sai ram!
    Anant Koti Brahmand Nayak Raja Dhi Raj Yogi Raj, Para Brahma Shri Sachidanand Satguru Sri Sai Nath Maharaj !
    Budhihin Tanu Janike, Sumiro Pavan Kumar, Bal Budhi Vidhya Dehu Mohe, Harahu Kalesa Vikar !
    ........................  बाकी सब तो सपने है, बस साईं ही तेरे अपने है, साईं ही तेरे अपने है, साईं ही तेरे अपने है !!

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    Re: Conversation with Baba....my true friend
    « Reply #289 on: November 01, 2010, 05:21:18 AM »
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  • dear saib...thank you so much. I really appreciate your thoughts and yes..i am doing all this for my inner self. I am tired of running in the rat race and am not enjoying what i do. Money is not everything in life; but it is important. So i have been doing this introspection and wanted to see what i really want in life and what will make me happy. the above post is a result of that. And it has taken me a year to decide on my course of action. During this time, i faced lot many challenges and attractions from other quarters. I was offered top positions and lots of money...but i knew i couldnt take it without hampering my family life. I want peace and happiness in life. what will i do with all the money if i dont have the time to spend it on my family or dont have the health to savour the money?? And what will i do with all the time with family but no money to tide over daily living. So balance is utmost important for me. I have tried to come up with this solution. I can only say that baba has directed my thoughts to be channelized in this direction. Maybe there is something good here. I may not be a millionaire but i will lead a happy life.

    Thanks once again saib...I really value your comments
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    Re: Conversation with Baba....my true friend
    « Reply #290 on: November 02, 2010, 10:00:20 PM »
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  • gud morning baba....today when i got up in the morning, i didnt feel well. My head was spinning and i felt like sleeping. Still..i carried on with work and here i am in office. But still feeling a little low... :-\
    Yesterday i spent the whole day at work dedicatedly...and i felt good. hope the streak continues....

    take care of all...
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    Re: Conversation with Baba....my true friend
    « Reply #291 on: November 02, 2010, 10:28:56 PM »
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    May every devotee of Shri Sai enjoy Happy, Healthy, Wealthy, Loving Peaceful, and Successful Long Life.

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    Re: Conversation with Baba....my true friend
    « Reply #292 on: November 03, 2010, 09:36:52 PM »
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  • Dear baba...gud morning. Yesterday i started reading "the monk who sold his ferrari". It talks about the importance of rituals and how it brings about discipline and consistency. Now, this is in opposition to what i always believed. To me, the intentions were always important. i never liked anything forced on me. And if i had to follow a custom or ritual which made no sense to me, i wouldn't do it. But yes - i do agree that if i follow a regular pattern of doing something new consistently, it will become second nature to me. It will get ingrained into me. A new line of thought........

    More - after i complete reading that book. At times i feel why i didnt get all that i wanted? then i feel - i got all the things that i really wanted and needed. So why carry any tension??
    Faith in Baba and self - these will help you overcome any obstacles.

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    « Reply #293 on: November 07, 2010, 09:31:49 PM »
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  • Dear baba...happy monday morning. The weekend was hectic. Thursday we went for the party and returned quite late. Thereafter we went to appa's house and celebrated diwali on friday morning. I quite liked r's gesture on this. We had so many things to do on friday evening and saturday....then we had the wedding to attend on sunday morning. All in all...tiring :)
    Baba....when will i....????
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    « Reply #294 on: November 08, 2010, 09:43:19 PM »
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  • om shirdi vasaye vidhmahe satchitanandaya dhimahi tanno sai prachodayath.

    om sai sharanam
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    « Reply #295 on: November 08, 2010, 10:03:00 PM »
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    Shri Sai Baba bless all with the best in life.

    May every devotee of Shri Sai enjoy Happy, Healthy, Wealthy, Loving Peaceful, and Successful Long Life.

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    « Reply #296 on: November 09, 2010, 10:23:12 PM »
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  • Baba...gud morning. I wont quit and i am not a loser. I am not going to run away from the problems....i m going to look at them sqaurely in the eye and say "try me!!"
    I know i have to run my own race and meet my own goals. I will be proactive and will meet the commitments i make to myself.
    Faith in Baba and self - these will help you overcome any obstacles.

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    « Reply #297 on: November 10, 2010, 05:43:28 AM »
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  • dont know how to react....
    RK got sacked and i was the decision maker (well...not really) But u know how he was at work....i feel professionally it has been a gud thing to have happened. Its called culling the dead horses. This has set an example in my team that non performers are not tolerated plus people with the wrong attitude are not going to last. at a personal level...i feel bad because of the pain one goes thru on losing his job. Its like losing ur identity.
    I hope he gets a decent break and hope he has learnt the lesson.
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    Re: Conversation with Baba....my true friend
    « Reply #298 on: November 10, 2010, 10:42:28 PM »
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    Shri Sai Baba bless all with the best in life.

    May every devotee of Shri Sai enjoy Happy, Healthy, Wealthy, Loving Peaceful, and Successful Long Life.

    Shradha      Saburi
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    Om Sai Shri Sai Jai Jai Sai

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    « Reply #299 on: November 11, 2010, 09:11:06 PM »
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  • Om sai namo namaha...om sai sharanam....
    baba...i just want to be your sharanagathi....i want to be with you....i am your child ...
    Faith in Baba and self - these will help you overcome any obstacles.

     


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