18 long years baba! Even lord ram didnt have to suffer so much. His vanwaas was for 14 years. I have suffered for 18 years now and still no sign of any respite. But for the first time today baba...i feel proud of myself for standing up to what i believe is correct. She is a mean, wily, scheming and vindictive person. While i know i can never think what she is going to do next, i will take care of myself and my family. I have had enough of the bullying, passive aggressive behavior. I have you and i have my mother's blessings. I can tolerate anything but not against my father and son. They are good human beings, gentle souls and if i have to rip her apart for being such a useless person, so be it. Imagine...she is talking ill about her own grandson. Shame on her! But baba...thanks for R. He stood by like a rock. I know i cant push it a lot with him. You never know when the tables will turn. But i will be careful and measured in my ways. Stay with me baba. stay with me and keep me safe