Abinavji,
your question is a tough one......as fr as i think when we r in trouble,the only thing we wnt is tht the problem shud be solved,the way it shud be....we pray n pray and hope for the
best result,so i think what happens is-we do send some positive vibes frm rselves and believe me these vibes r very strong....and i have felt tht agar hum kutch sach mein chahein to waisa hota hai,provided aapke man mein uske liye doubt na aaye(na ka)agar aapki antar aatma se us chiz ke liye positivity hi aa rhi hai to woh zaroor hoga,aisa meine feel kiya hai.
And yeh +vity kahan se aa rhi hai,koi to hai jo use bhej rha hai humare ander,so i relate tht to sai,because he is my guru(abhi mein waise unse naraz hun for my reasons)
Kisi par bhi blind faith na kare unless u actually feel something!jaise log blind faith pe wrat(fast) rakhtein hain ki god khush hoga,but jab pet khali hai to bhagwan kahan yaad aayenge???pain hoga aur sai chahega ki aapko dard ho
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doosra dan karein,m nt sying paisa banto but thoda jaise garib bhuka baccha,ya koi bilkul fatehal garib ko aap ek shawl de do.....usse aap kisi zaroorat mand ke man ko kush kar rhe ho(u will gt hell lot f satisfaction)ab, i dont mean ki hardum dan karo,apni jeb bhi dekhni hai....
isse mujhe aisa feel hota hai ki meine kutch apne hone ka is duniya mein,kutch to kiya WORTH!isse mujhe kutch sakti milti hai!meri inner strenght mazboot hoti hai!!!i feel gud.(pata nhi m able to convey it right or not)
close ur eyes and ask this question to urself,u will gt an answer,aapko feel hoga,jo aapko sunai de woh jawab hai,agar aapko kutch sunai na de to dnt worry thoda ruko,apni life pe reflect karo(jo past mein hua hai)u will know wht ur searching!agar tab bhi na kutch ho to
apne parents ki eyes mein dekhna especially mother and you will gt ur final answer,woh hi sab kutch sach hai....
i hope u gt the answer soon!