WHAT SHOULD I DO ( PLZ VOTE)

[saideep]

Oom Sai Ram,

Yesterday my boss has asked me to travel to korea, and at home there is no one except me mom and papa... and very recently papa was also operated for prostate enlargement. and mom normally has severe joint pains... they both are not in gud heath condition.
this is an oppurtunity for me to grow.. and also earn some....
i Request you all to vote for me if i should travle or not
i told my boss that i need soem time to think....
last night i prayed baba and told u can build my carrer here also i need not have to go any where leaving my parents and my responsibilities... because there is no one else to take care of them......

note: i have been asked to travel for minimum 8 months.. which might extend for a year or more ....

PLEASE VOTE.....SO THAT I CAN COME TO A CONCLUSION.....

SAI SAI SAI
SAI SAI SAI
SAI SAI SAI

saideep

[minookalsi]

Dear Saideep

It is good to know that you have got a chance to make your career, but most important in life are your parents who must have done a lot of sacrifice to bring you at this stage.  You can make your career while staying here and I am sure Sai Baba has thought good for you.  Don't leave your parents alone.

Om Sai Ram

[tana]

Om Sai Ram....

BIG NO.......

Don't leave your parents alone..........


Deepak i talk to my son Raj ...he also said NO.....

Jai Sai Ram...

[muskaan]

Om Sai Ram,

I do not want to dissapoint you, but I dont think its a bright idea to leave your parents and go abroad.  If baba wants he will show you a way and give you a much brighter oportunity in India itself. What do your folks have to say about it?

But i feel why dont you put up this question in front of baba- iam sure he will guide you and show you a way out. I strongly believe that you cannot make a life and even if you do you can never be happy when your parents are not happy. Right...... take time and make a wse decision... put up your plea in front of your management with the problems your facing ... iam sure there will be a way out...

May baba guide u to make the right decision

Jai Sai Ram

[mainhoonsaibeti]

What do your parents say? and most important what does your heart say?

All our answers lie within us.

[saideep]

sai ram.

muskanji, anu di,  minookalsi  and mainhoonsaibeti ji,

wel i did speak to mon...as cant tell it to dad as he is recently operated.
she is tellling that they will manage and i can think of going.. i am my self not very comfortable in leaving them like this.... sach mein i dunno wat do do... as a guided by anu didi i spoke to my supervios and told him that i need 2-3 days to think.. and then i will reply.....
my parenst will tell yes, as they are concerned abt my career... par i think my responsibility towards them is more than any thing else.. i dunno wat to do....

saideep

[sonikaputtoo]

Dear saideep,
as every body is saying, u have to prioritise things in ur life.u have to see ur career, finances and future and weigh it agsinst ur resposibilities.......dono mein se kya bhari hai after seeing pros and cones then u should decide.......if u think it is a matter of a year or so and ur parents can manage and at the same time it is going to make a big difference in ur career and finances then u should go otherwise if u find that the difference is not that big and it  can be achieved in India staying close to ur parents then you should not go........

think carefully and take ur parents in full confidence and then decide........dont repent ur either of the decision later on!!!!!!!!!

May Baba bless u and show u the correct path!!!!!!!

[saidasan]

deepak,
If you can arrange someone trustworthy to take care of their needs then travel otherwise ignore this offer and surrender to Sai. Merely waiting for a few years will not solve your problem as they get older. I understand your plight as I'm the only son to my parents but sooner than later some tough decisions in life have to be taken. If you support your parents then you might have to consider monetary inflow before mid-age crisis to provide good medical care.
Evaluate the pros and cons yourself.
 

[saideep]

sonikaputto and saidasan ji,

thanks a ton for ur reply,
wel both has its pro and cons....,,, i feel that every way i will be loosing some thing.....
as i am the only son they are so attached to me... and they will surely not feel gud.. whn ill be away for a year.....  i am really in dilema... as to wat to do.... both the sides are equally heavy..... let baba decide......

sai sai sai
sai sai sai
sai sai sai

deepak

[Kavitaparna]

OM SRI SAI RAM

Chotu, Sai Ram!

Indeed I feel happy to note this that you are recognized in your office.

Baba will surely guide you in right direction.

Our father will surely bless you with a direct answer and guidance.

My prayers are with you dear.

Baba!

Please bless Chotu always. He is in need of your guidance right now.
Your answer shall make his life happier and that should be the best one for him from all respects.

om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai
om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai
om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai

Baba! Pls take care of your beloved child.

Jai Sri Sai Ram

[saideep]

Sai Ram Kavita didi,

Thanks a ton for your prayers,
i am really in dilama at this point of time... because both things are equally weighing ....
agar i look at my career i fail my responsibilities and if i take care of that ... i miss and oppurtunity....
wel last night i prayed baba, ke if its a matter of my career you can also help me out here with it... but i dont know what baba has to unfold,,,,,,,
because prnts mean every thing to me.... meri duniya bohat choti hai ... .... ab pata nahi i have taken 2-3 days time... so waiting for his order as to what i need to do?

deepak

[sonikaputtoo]

Dear Saideep,
aapkee jo feelings hai for ur parents it is worth appreciating.aaj kal ke bachon mein ye feelings thoda kam hee dekhne ko miltee hai..mera dil khush ho gaya and i am sure ki baba ka bhi zaroor hua hoga so he will definitely guide u ..have faith and patience

OM SAI daya karo sahi margdarshan karo saideep ka!

[Starter]

if you can arrange some one and pay them till you come back and if your parents are comfortable with it pk-
 but if you think only SAI can answer this - then put 2 chits in front of SAI and ask your mom to pick, if that is ok with you- when you are not able to make your own decision then, I can only think of this.
Parents are vimportant but if u need finance to take care of their medicals and home then think and judge,
sairam

[gaurav_dctm]

Om Sri Sai Ram...

Baba ji, please guide Saideep ji and help him take the right decision.
Whatever you decide, will be best for Saideep...in fact for everyone in this world...

Saideep ji: Please have some patience and full faith in Baba ji...He will guide you and give some indication regarding what is best for you!

God bless everyone
Gaurav

[saideep]

SAI RAM EVERY ONE,

And thanks for your valuable suggession's , starter ji and gaurav ji as been told the only option left to me is ask baba for an answer put chit like yes and no ... and seek his answer....
kal thursday hai, to il ask him tomorrow......
yes what bab will do it will be the best ,..... we think of today and bab thinks about our future....

baba you know every thing... sach mein baba i am damn tired now... even yesterday night i sat in teh pooja room ... par man inta dukhi aur ashant tha... ki i dint knew what to do......i just read one page scc and sai bhakti path ... keep meditating on him and slept.....

i thought i will take an answer from ths book sai baba answers... but couldnt do that also ......

baba only knows ,,,,, and i am leaving it on him.....

but my only concern is my parents.. i hope baba takes a decission keping them in mind....

reham karo sai .... aao sai....

deepak