Why Love hurts??!!

[SaiKaKaran]

Hi Sai Devotees,

Aakhri kuch dino mein maine mandir mein pada ki bahut log Pyaar na milne ki wajeh se ya phir pyaar mein dokha milne ki wajeh se sai baba ki sharan mein aaye hain...in sab ko pyaar karne ki sazaa kyon mil rahi hai? Kya sacch mein pyaar itna bedard hai? Baba un logon ki madat kyon nahi karte jinka pyaar saccha hai..? Agar 100 Log pyaar karte hai to unme se 95 Logon ki aankhon mein kuch dino ke baad aansun hote hain...aisa kyon baba?

Main jab bhi aisi posts padta hun ki kisi ko kisi ka pyaar nahi mila to dil dukhta hai...mann mein kai sawal aate hain...

Saccha Pyaar karne waalo ka dil sone ka hota hai, aur sone ke dilon mein bhagwan rehte hai.....phir bhagwan kyon nahi support kar rahe love ko?

Pyaar ke bina zindagi bahut adhuri hai, baba meri aapse winti hai ki sab sacche pyaar karne waalo ko milwa do...aur hum sab ko shakti bhi do, ki hum agar kisi se pyaar kare, to phir saccha kare...

Om Sai Ram!

[sureshsarat]

Om Sri Sainathaya Namaha
Om Sri Sainathaya Namaha
Om Sri Sainathaya Namaha

Love never hurts ! Only possessiveness hurts ! Love stemming out of possessiveness (also called as attachment, infatuation, selfishness) hurts

Love is just a state.

[SaiRangdaughter]

JAY SAI RAM,,

Dear Sai Ka Karanji,,

Its the only truth tht Love never hurts....

Aur rahi Sache pyaar ki baat ..Pariksha to hamesha sache pyar ki hi hoti hai....

U know for such love,, Even Godess Parvati Ma had done TAAP, for more than 64 crore years ,, and to get such love to be convert into marriage Rukmaniji,, HAD STRUGGLE MORE THAN ANY OF US..

So u can get the idea tht ,,true love,, always takes PARIKSHA,,whether he or she is just a human being or any godess...

So if u find anyone with tears ,,and fallen in the true love,,its not his or her end of the life,, its just a process to get his/her true love forever...

Dont worry,, it takes more time,,like,, " bhagwan ke yahan der hain ..par aandher nahi"

JAY SAI NATH

[nimmi_sai]

karan ji ,
aap ne baba se bahut acha quest pucha hai ......merey point view se ager aap poochey ager do log appas main kise reason se nahi mil paaye to its not ki pyaar khatam ho jaata hai  if it is true love ,it ll never hurt ....
love is something you cant see or touch unless u know its there ......
i pray ki ham aise logo se miley jinka pyaar sacha ho ....kai baar baba hamain kise se ise liye alagh ker detey hai taanki ham jaan sakey wat is true love ?
kise ne bahut acha kaha hai .....................................
      “Watching you walk out of my life does not make me bitter or cynical about love. But rather makes me realize that if I wanted so much to be with the wrong person how beautiful it will be when the right one comes along.”
i just pray ki jinko bhi ham pyaar kerey ya jo bhi hamain pyaar kerey ...unka pyaar sacha hoo ..................or wo kabhi bhi ham se alagh na ho ...ameennnnn
regards
Nimmi

[tana]

Om Sri Sainathaya Namaha
Om Sri Sainathaya Namaha
Om Sri Sainathaya Namaha

Love never hurts ! Only possessiveness hurts ! Love stemming out of possessiveness (also called as attachment, infatuation, selfishness) hurts

Love is just a state.

Om Sai Ram~~~

Maybe the question to ask is...'Should love hurt?'.
I think the answer is NO....
If you really truly love someone, then why should that 'hurt' you, surely it is better that you are with a lover who makes you feel happy, relaxed, good about yourself etc. If you are 'hurting', then maybe you are with the wrong person or you need to 'change' the way you look at things? Obviously it hurts to lose someone you love, but hurt does not form the basis of a positive, loving relationship.


Jai Sai Ram~~~

[SaiKaKaran]

...I believe you all that true love can never hurt....I just only wanted to find out, why all the lovers suffering here in this forum. The y all are praying to sai baba for their lover to come back in their life....isn't that sweet?

May Baba bless you all...

And Nimmi ji,

“Watching you walk out of my life does not make me bitter or cynical about love. But rather makes me realize that if I wanted so much to be with the wrong person how beautiful it will be when the right one comes along.”

Aapki ye line dil ko choo gai !!!!! Such a beautiful words. I will write it down. Thanks.

Om Sai Ram
- karan -

[nimmi_sai]

karan ji
thanxxxx so much for the appreciation .....Please keep me  in your prayers as i really need it...May God guide and protect you and your loved ones always.
 i wish you all the very best always. God Bless
regards
nimmi
sai ram

[posting]

Om Shri Sai Nathaya Namah......................

Love ka matlab nahi samje aur love karne chale..............Weak people ka kaam nahi hai pyaar karna.Jis ke Pass Strong Heart hai, he or she can only love.

If u love some one does not mean he or she should love u back.If u r expecting then its not love.Maine favour kiya aab aap ki bari.Love does not expect anything in return.Love means sacrifice.One sided intense love without expecting fruit.

There is nothing called Sacha Love.If two people are truely in love then they will stick to each other hook or crook.False lovers get separted.Saab Attachment ka khel hai ye saacha nakli pyaar.

People whose intentions are clear always stay together.Jine ke intention clear nahi hai saache payyar ka naam dekar rote hai...Sai why did u so?Bechara Sai Bhi kya kare jab dono me se Ek ka intention sahi nahi ho ya dono ka sahi nahi ho.Why Sai will take Pariksha?Sai is a Examiner or what.U will do and say Sai why are u testing me.Jaise Karni waise bharni.Keep ur intention and commitment very clear then Sai will also help u..We should not blame God,we are responsible for whatever state we are.

Jism Ka Sambandh Saacha Pyaar Nahi Hota.This animal can do.

Pyaar karne ka natak kaarna easy hai per nibhana difficult.People do love marriage and after that they divorce.Kyu?Because they were true lovers.Isn't it?

Saacha pyaar sirf Bhagwan se ho sakta hai Body waale insaan se nahi.Body wala to aaj, nahi to kal chala jayega.

Why are u wasting time and love energy on some one who will not stay permanently with u even if u get married.If this way he or she does not go then death will snatch away.

Do Amar or Eternal Love and that can only be done with GOD Sai  not with bodywala lover.

Om Shri Sai Nathaya Namah......................

[SaiRangdaughter]

Om sai Ram,,

Dear posting,,

I think ,, U had hurt a lottttttttttttttttttttttttttt in ur past.. tht u dnt belive in love...

especially ur this words,,


Saacha pyaar sirf Bhagwan se ho sakta hai Body waale insaan se nahi.Body wala to aaj, nahi to kal chala jayega.

what do u mean by this dear,, not to love human,, just love GOD?

God himself,, tell us to love everyone..anyways.. We will surely pray for U...

JAY SAI NATH

Om Shri Sai Nathaya Namah......................

Love ka matlab nahi samje aur love karne chale..............Weak people ka kaam nahi hai pyaar karna.Jis ke Pass Strong Heart hai, he or she can only love.

If u love some one does not mean he or she should love u back.If u r expecting then its not love.Maine favour kiya aab aap ki bari.Love does not expect anything in return.Love means sacrifice.One sided intense love without expecting fruit.

There is nothing called Sacha Love.If two people are truely in love then they will stick to each other hook or crook.False lovers get separted.Saab Attachment ka khel hai ye saacha nakli pyaar.

People whose intentions are clear always stay together.Jine ke intention clear nahi hai saache payyar ka naam dekar rote hai...Sai why did u so?Bechara Sai Bhi kya kare jab dono me se Ek ka intention sahi nahi ho ya dono ka sahi nahi ho.Why Sai will take Pariksha?Sai is a Examiner or what.U will do and say Sai why are u testing me.Jaise Karni waise bharni.Keep ur intention and commitment very clear then Sai will also help u..We should not blame God,we are responsible for whatever state we are.

Jism Ka Sambandh Saacha Pyaar Nahi Hota.This animal can do.

Pyaar karne ka natak kaarna easy hai per nibhana difficult.People do love marriage and after that they divorce.Kyu?Because they were true lovers.Isn't it?

Saacha pyaar sirf Bhagwan se ho sakta hai Body waale insaan se nahi.Body wala to aaj, nahi to kal chala jayega.

Why are u wasting time and love energy on some one who will not stay permanently with u even if u get married.If this way he or she does not go then death will snatch away.

Do Amar or Eternal Love and that can only be done with GOD Sai  not with bodywala lover.

Om Shri Sai Nathaya Namah......................

[tana]

Om Sai Ram~~~

Very True Pravin bhai....

Love ka matlab nahi samje aur love karne chale......

People whose intentions are clear always stay together.Jine ke intention clear nahi hai saache payyar ka naam dekar rote hai...Sai why did u so?Bechara Sai Bhi kya kare jab dono me se Ek ka intention sahi nahi ho ya dono ka sahi nahi ho.Why Sai will take Pariksha?Sai is a Examiner or what.U will do and say Sai why are u testing me.Jaise Karni waise bharni.Keep ur intention and commitment very clear then Sai will also help u..We should not blame God,we are responsible for whatever state we are.



Do Amar or Eternal Love and that can only be done with GOD Sai  not with bodywala lover.


BABA kya kya kare gae

God is love, so love is a reflection of God. Heavenly father will never hurt someone...

 "Infatuation" hurts because we must learn our lessons in life, we must understand the difference and stop falling for it. Learn to love the Lord first, yourself second, and the Lord shall provide you with real love....

Jai Sai Ram~~~

[SaiKaKaran]

Love ka matlab nahi samje aur love karne chale..............

Koun?? Hum Sab?? Ya Main? 

If u love some one does not mean he or she should love u back.If u r expecting then its not love.Maine favour kiya aab aap ki bari.Love does not expect anything in return.Love means sacrifice.One sided intense love without expecting fruit.

Well said! You can't expect your lover to love you back. (However one-sided love only hurts and remains uncomplete)

There is nothing called Sacha Love.

I don't think so. Obviously saccha love exists in this world. Physical attraction may not be real love...but love that is totally committed to the welfare of the other is true love. True love never dies in contrary to "false" love...

People whose intentions are clear always stay together.Jine ke intention clear nahi hai saache payyar ka naam dekar rote hai...Sai why did u so?Bechara Sai Bhi kya kare jab dono me se Ek ka intention sahi nahi ho ya dono ka sahi nahi ho.Why Sai will take Pariksha?Sai is a Examiner or what.U will do and say Sai why are u testing me.Jaise Karni waise bharni.Keep ur intention and commitment very clear then Sai will also help u..We should not blame God,we are responsible for whatever state we are.

Is forum mein jitne bhi log apna pyaar na milne ki wajeh se aaye hai, wo sai baba par ilzaam nahi laga rahe ki "baba you did so with me..." They are just praying to sai for his support, for forgiveness if they have done any mistakes...Ya sai will support them if there intentions are neat and clean...if their love is true

Saacha pyaar sirf Bhagwan se ho sakta hai Body waale insaan se nahi.Body wala to aaj, nahi to kal chala jayega.

Why are u wasting time and love energy on some one who will not stay permanently with u even if u get married.If this way he or she does not go then death will snatch away.

Agar sai baba bhi aisa chahte, to is duniya mein pyaar aur attraction naam ki koi cheez hoti hi nahi. Jo hota hai sai baba ki marzi se hota hai, so we let him to regulate this world. Main to kahunga, ki jisse bhi pyaar karo, sirf saccha pyaar karo

Om Sai Ram
-karan-

[posting]

Om Shri Sai Nathaya Namah....................

No one can hurt me.I can hurt myself.........

Ladki Ladke wala love alag aur humanity wala love alag hai.Ladki Ladke wala love selfish aur humanity wala love selfless.

Jaha Selfishness waha Bhagwan Kaha.

Ladki Ladke wala love is passion but love for humanity is compassion.

So Do U love Ur Neighbour as Thyself

Baba Bless All.

=======================================

Om sai Ram,,

Dear posting,,

I think ,, U had hurt a lottttttttttttttttttttttttttt in ur past.. tht u dnt belive in love...

especially ur this words,,


Saacha pyaar sirf Bhagwan se ho sakta hai Body waale insaan se nahi.Body wala to aaj, nahi to kal chala jayega.

what do u mean by this dear,, not to love human,, just love GOD?

God himself,, tell us to love everyone..anyways.. We will surely pray for U...

JAY SAI NATH

Om Shri Sai Nathaya Namah......................

Love ka matlab nahi samje aur love karne chale..............Weak people ka kaam nahi hai pyaar karna.Jis ke Pass Strong Heart hai, he or she can only love.

If u love some one does not mean he or she should love u back.If u r expecting then its not love.Maine favour kiya aab aap ki bari.Love does not expect anything in return.Love means sacrifice.One sided intense love without expecting fruit.

There is nothing called Sacha Love.If two people are truely in love then they will stick to each other hook or crook.False lovers get separted.Saab Attachment ka khel hai ye saacha nakli pyaar.

People whose intentions are clear always stay together.Jine ke intention clear nahi hai saache payyar ka naam dekar rote hai...Sai why did u so?Bechara Sai Bhi kya kare jab dono me se Ek ka intention sahi nahi ho ya dono ka sahi nahi ho.Why Sai will take Pariksha?Sai is a Examiner or what.U will do and say Sai why are u testing me.Jaise Karni waise bharni.Keep ur intention and commitment very clear then Sai will also help u..We should not blame God,we are responsible for whatever state we are.

Jism Ka Sambandh Saacha Pyaar Nahi Hota.This animal can do.

Pyaar karne ka natak kaarna easy hai per nibhana difficult.People do love marriage and after that they divorce.Kyu?Because they were true lovers.Isn't it?

Saacha pyaar sirf Bhagwan se ho sakta hai Body waale insaan se nahi.Body wala to aaj, nahi to kal chala jayega.

Why are u wasting time and love energy on some one who will not stay permanently with u even if u get married.If this way he or she does not go then death will snatch away.

Do Amar or Eternal Love and that can only be done with GOD Sai  not with bodywala lover.

Om Shri Sai Nathaya Namah......................

[SaiRangdaughter]

JAY SAI NATH....

Om Shri Sai Nathaya Namah....................

No one can hurt me.I can hurt myself.........

Ladki Ladke wala love alag aur humanity wala love alag hai.Ladki Ladke wala love selfish aur humanity wala love selfless.

Jaha Selfishness waha Bhagwan Kaha.

Ladki Ladke wala love is passion but love for humanity is compassion.

So Do U love Ur Neighbour as Thyself

Baba Bless All.

=======================================

Om sai Ram,,

Dear posting,,

I think ,, U had hurt a lottttttttttttttttttttttttttt in ur past.. tht u dnt belive in love...

especially ur this words,,


Saacha pyaar sirf Bhagwan se ho sakta hai Body waale insaan se nahi.Body wala to aaj, nahi to kal chala jayega.

what do u mean by this dear,, not to love human,, just love GOD?

God himself,, tell us to love everyone..anyways.. We will surely pray for U...

JAY SAI NATH

Om Shri Sai Nathaya Namah......................

Love ka matlab nahi samje aur love karne chale..............Weak people ka kaam nahi hai pyaar karna.Jis ke Pass Strong Heart hai, he or she can only love.

If u love some one does not mean he or she should love u back.If u r expecting then its not love.Maine favour kiya aab aap ki bari.Love does not expect anything in return.Love means sacrifice.One sided intense love without expecting fruit.

There is nothing called Sacha Love.If two people are truely in love then they will stick to each other hook or crook.False lovers get separted.Saab Attachment ka khel hai ye saacha nakli pyaar.

People whose intentions are clear always stay together.Jine ke intention clear nahi hai saache payyar ka naam dekar rote hai...Sai why did u so?Bechara Sai Bhi kya kare jab dono me se Ek ka intention sahi nahi ho ya dono ka sahi nahi ho.Why Sai will take Pariksha?Sai is a Examiner or what.U will do and say Sai why are u testing me.Jaise Karni waise bharni.Keep ur intention and commitment very clear then Sai will also help u..We should not blame God,we are responsible for whatever state we are.

Jism Ka Sambandh Saacha Pyaar Nahi Hota.This animal can do.

Pyaar karne ka natak kaarna easy hai per nibhana difficult.People do love marriage and after that they divorce.Kyu?Because they were true lovers.Isn't it?

Saacha pyaar sirf Bhagwan se ho sakta hai Body waale insaan se nahi.Body wala to aaj, nahi to kal chala jayega.

Why are u wasting time and love energy on some one who will not stay permanently with u even if u get married.If this way he or she does not go then death will snatch away.

Do Amar or Eternal Love and that can only be done with GOD Sai  not with bodywala lover.

Om Shri Sai Nathaya Namah......................

[posting]

Love ka matlab nahi samje aur love karne chale..............

Koun?? Hum Sab?? Ya Main?  What is the difference between me,u and all people.We are all same and One.We are children of Sai and we are one.If I hurt u then I hurt myself.This message was for whole forum members just not for u.Please don't take it personally.If u are hurt then I am also hurt.I m no different from U.

If u love some one does not mean he or she should love u back.If u r expecting then its not love.Maine favour kiya aab aap ki bari.Love does not expect anything in return.Love means sacrifice.One sided intense love without expecting fruit.

Well said! You can't expect your lover to love you back. (However one-sided love only hurts and remains uncomplete).Don't call one-sided love as love,its just desire and not love.If we had truely loved her or him na then by hook or crook we would have got him or her.Sai ke Baache Hai,nothing is impossible for us.First have faith in ur self.U know why are we doing one-sided,just because we don't have faith on urself.God help those who help themselves.Have Faith in Urself and don't think inferior to none.

There is nothing called Sacha Love.

I don't think so. Obviously saccha love exists in this world. Physical attraction may not be real love...but love that is totally committed to the welfare of the other is true love. True love never dies in contrary to "false" love...Man and woman love is not true love until he sees God in her and she see God in him.Both serve each other as they are serving God.They always see Good in each other and help each other to improves themselves.That is true love.If he or she loves  because of his or her looks,position and material aspects then that is not true love.But now in this world u will rarely find true love but all is attachment.Saab materialistic hogaye hai.We will feel bad and we will not accept this statement but with little introspection u will find it true.But to love others u should love urself first then only u can love others selflessly.

People whose intentions are clear always stay together.Jine ke intention clear nahi hai saache payyar ka naam dekar rote hai...Sai why did u so?Bechara Sai Bhi kya kare jab dono me se Ek ka intention sahi nahi ho ya dono ka sahi nahi ho.Why Sai will take Pariksha?Sai is a Examiner or what.U will do and say Sai why are u testing me.Jaise Karni waise bharni.Keep ur intention and commitment very clear then Sai will also help u..We should not blame God,we are responsible for whatever state we are.

Is forum mein jitne bhi log apna pyaar na milne ki wajeh se aaye hai, wo sai baba par ilzaam nahi laga rahe ki "baba you did so with me..." They are just praying to sai for his support, for forgiveness if they have done any mistakes...Ya sai will support them if there intentions are neat and clean...if their love is true.One sided love is just desire not love.If we love ourself then we will get support from Sai.But first we need to love ourselves .We are extension of  Sai.Pray Sai with total and surrender that your faith on urself increase.

Saacha pyaar sirf Bhagwan se ho sakta hai Body waale insaan se nahi.Body wala to aaj, nahi to kal chala jayega.

Why are u wasting time and love energy on some one who will not stay permanently with u even if u get married.If this way he or she does not go then death will snatch away.

Agar sai baba bhi aisa chahte, to is duniya mein pyaar aur attraction naam ki koi cheez hoti hi nahi. Jo hota hai sai baba ki marzi se hota hai, so we let him to regulate this world. Main to kahunga, ki jisse bhi pyaar karo, sirf saccha pyaar karo.

Who does Saacha Pyaar Now a days?No even one single person.Not even the mother,father,son,brother,sister wife or lover.Every one is loving other just to get it back.Bina favour ke kaam nahi chalta hai aaj kaal.Without giving we will not get anything.We pray Sai because we want something from Him.We don't love Him selflessly.So Were is love inside this praying.I am praying so Sai u do for me this.This is True Love or Saacha Pyaar?Saacha Pyaar does not want anything in return.It is Selfless.It just gives......

Om Sai Ram
-karan-

[nimmi_sai]

Shreyamishra ji ...
sai ram ...
i agree with u ...ajj ki post pad ker even i m alsoo feeling very bad ......MAIN BAS YAHI KAHOONGI KI PYAAR KERNEY KE LIYE KUCH KHAAS DIL HI BANEY HOTEY HAI ..PYAAR SAB KE  BAS  KI BAAT NAHI ..PYAAR BHAGWAN SE OR USKEY BANAYE HUAY  HAR  INSAAN SE KERNA CHIYE ...PYAAR KERNA KOI BURI BAAT NAHI ...BAS US MAIN KOI SELFISNESS NA HO TO WO PYAAR VERDAAN BAN JAATA HAI ....JISKO MIL JAATA HAI US PER KHUD ISHWER KI KRIPA HO JAATI HAI
END MAIN EK BAAT YAHI KAHOONGI KI PLS PYAAR KO OR BADNAAM NA KIYA JAAYE OR BABA SE YAHI PRAY KEREY KI PYAAR  HER DIL MAIN HO..OR HAR KISE SE HOOO .OR JITNA FHELEY UTNA KAM HAI ..ISI LIYE KISE NE KAHA HAI .
...Ham Ne Dekhii Hai In AaNkho Kii Mahakatii Khushabuu
Haath Se Chhuu ke Ise Rishto Kaa Ilzaam Na Do
Sirf Ehasaas Hai Ye Ruuh Se Mahasuus Karo
Pyaar Ko Pyaar Hii Rahane Do Koii Naam Na Do

JAHAN PYAAR HAI WAHAIN BHAGWAN HAI ...
LOVE IS GOD ......
MAY SAI BLESS U ALL.....
OM SAI SHRI SAI JAI JAI SAI
NIMMI