In the world how one should behave? If one cheats us, what shall we do?

[dattaswami]

In the world how one should behave? If one cheats us, what shall we do?

If you keep silent about that, there are two possibilities; you might have cheated him in the previous birth and he might have cheated you again in counter now, the file is closed. Now God will not revenge on him. So you should also keep silent, since the file is closed; it is only a counter action. That is one possibility. Or it may be he is doing the action, then if you counter act your counteracting will be very less, you keep silent and leave to God. Revenge is Mine. God will counter act million times more effectively, so your patience is the real characteristic of intellectual person there. One should be patient and leave to God pray God Oh God , it is your decision, I am cheated by him like this. I know you will give the judgment.

If I have already cheated him in the previous birth this may be the counter action, the judge will not give again any punishment to him. That is why when some body harms us no action takes on him, you do not seen any action. If it is counter action how can you see the action, in that case the file is closed. If you take action for counter action, then again some counter action is to be given to you. Again the chain is generated, a closed file is re-opened. Suppose it is action, it’s not counter action, if action is done and counter action is not taken, whose administration will get bad name, He is more worried than you.  You are worried about the counter action, but more than you He is worried, because in His administration some injustice is happening will He tolerate? Even if you tolerate he will not tolerate, why He will not tolerate, because He want to transform the soul through punishment.

Thus punishment is also not for revenge. God want to transform the soul continuously so definitely there will be punishment. So it for Him to decide just keep silent. And it is not counter action and really action, then definitely you will see the counter action with your eyes, several times, million times. But, if you have taken counter action then it may be again a counter action on counter action, then again you will have to receive counter action from God. Suppose in the action you leave to God He will give the proper punishment, He knows when to give how to give. Just leave to Him.  His administration is very important it will never get any  blame. He is more worried, He is omnipotent He is capable of punishing the people, He is capable of  uplifting His administration, why should you bother, you keep silent, leave to God.