Life is like a wrestling competition. If one makes a foul move or indulges in a wrong play, the hands are automatically tied up and beaten up badly till the inner ego is killed.
Life and journey by train are similar with Kith and kin as co passengers. Later when a decision to change over to another train (spiritual path) is taken, your own people may not prefer to accompany you.
What we do not have in life is not important. What matters most is whether we are contented with what we have.
Om Sri Sairam